Sonja Morgan talks being 'treated like crap' by Luann de Lesseps on 'RHONY' reunion (Exclusive)

Sonja Morgan was stunned when she realized that Luann de Lesseps didn't know where her daughter is going to college.

During the recent third part of "The Real Housewives of New York" reunion, in an effort to highlight her claim that Luann has been in her own world this past season, Bethenny Frankel asked the countess if she knew where Morgan's daughter, who doesn't appear on the show, was going to college.

When she didn't know, Sonja and the rest of her cast mates were visibly stunned on the reunion. While promoting her Fiber One "Work Done" music video alongside fellow Real Housewives Porsha Williams and Melissa Gorga, Sonja opened up to AOL's Gibson Johns about the moment, saying that "everyone else knew."

"Bethenny was texting me five times the day you find out [if you got in or not]," Sonja said. "All the girls knew when we didn’t find out during early admissions, and they were on me like all the time [asking about it]. Luann didn’t even know. That’s where she was. Everyone knew, even Melissa [Gorga] asked me!"

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"It was every day of my life last year, and I actually fell apart a little bit and felt like Humpty Dumpty fell off the wall and needs to be put back together again. When you’re a mom and go through you kid taking the SATs and applying to college, you blame yourself. If the kid doesn’t get into college, the moms blame themselves forever."

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NEW YORK, NEW YORK - MARCH 13: Sonja Morgan attends WE TV 'Bridezillas' season 12 fashion show at The Angel Orensanz Foundation on March 13, 2019 in New York City. (Photo by Santiago Felipe/WireImage)
NEW YORK, NY - MARCH 04: Sonja Morgan is seen on March 04, 2019 in New York City. (Photo by Nancy Rivera/Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - MARCH 04: TV personalities Sonja Morgan (L) and Luann de Lesseps attend the 'Gloria Bell' New York screening at Museum of Modern Art on March 04, 2019 in New York City. (Photo by Jim Spellman/WireImage)
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - MARCH 04: Reality TV personality and Real Housewife of New York City Sonja Morgan visits 'Extra' at The Levi's Store Times Square on March 04, 2019 in New York City. (Photo by Michael Loccisano/Getty Images)
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - MARCH 04: Reality TV personalities and Real Housewives of New York City Ramona Singer (L) and Sonja Morgan visit 'Extra' at The Levi's Store Times Square on March 04, 2019 in New York City. (Photo by Michael Loccisano/Getty Images)
NEW YORK CITY, NY - FEBRUARY 07: Sonja Morgan, Mario Cantone and Luann de Lesseps attends the The 3rd Annual Blue Jacket Fashion Show Benefitting The Prostate Cancer Foundation at Pier 59 Studios on February 7, 2019 in New York City, NY. (Photo by Rob Kim/Getty Images for Blue Jacket)
NEW YORK CITY, NY - FEBRUARY 07: Sonja Morgan prepares backstage during the The 3rd Annual Blue Jacket Fashion Show Benefitting The Prostate Cancer Foundation at Pier 59 Studios on February 7, 2019 in New York City, NY. (Photo by Rob Kim/Getty Images for Blue Jacket)
NEW YORK, UNITED STATES - 2018/12/14: Sonja Morgan attends Susanne Bartsch and David Barton's Toy Drive at TMPL West Village. (Photo by Lev Radin/Pacific Press/LightRocket via Getty Images)
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - NOVEMBER 30: Sonja Morgan attends the Improv Asylum Grand Opening Event on November 30, 2018 in New York City. (Photo by Thomas Concordia/Getty Images for Improv Asylum )
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - NOVEMBER 30: (L-R) Sonja Morgan, Ramona Singer and Tinsley Mortimer attend the Improv Asylum Grand Opening on November 30, 2018 in New York City. (Photo by JP Yim/Getty Images for Improv Asylum )
NEW YORK, NY - NOVEMBER 29: Jill Zarin (L) and Sonja Morgan attend the Lotte New York Palace Annual Tree Lighting on November 29, 2018 in New York City. (Photo by Craig Barritt/Getty Images for Lotte Place New York Palace)
NEW YORK, NY - NOVEMBER 09: Sonja Morgan and Andrew Werner attend the 2018 American Friends of Blerancourt Dinner on November 9, 2018 in New York City. (Photo by Theo Wargo/Getty Images)
NEW YORK, NY - NOVEMBER 05: Sonja Morgan attends Phobia Relief Day on November 5, 2018 in New York City. (Photo by Sylvain Gaboury/Patrick McMullan via Getty Images)
NEW YORK, NY - OCTOBER 22: Sonja Morgan attends the 2018 Angel Ball at Cipriani Wall Street on October 22, 2018 in New York City. (Photo by Taylor Hill/Getty Images)
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Later in the conversation with AOL, Porsha said that "sometimes the best way to move on is to sweep it under the rug," which Sonja completely agreed with, especially when it related to her years-long friendship with Luann.

"I do that all the time with Luann!" she laughed.

Overall, Sonja said that "Luann was amazingly Luann" on this season's reunion: "She went from countess to cabaret star, and she was in protection mode protecting her sobriety. Basically, we all got treated like crap!"

Sonja, who joined "The Real Housewives of New York" in season 3, also added that the reunion highlighted how hard it can be for new people to be added to the long-running show's cast.

"We’re all really good friends, and it’s a little like Jersey where it’s hard to bring in new people," she explained. "With Barbara [Kavovit] and Tinsley [Mortimer], it’s hard to acclimate them, but I thought Tinsley had a great season last season. I was sorry Barbara didn’t get a bigger bite of the apple. She got a late start in there, and that was sad."

One person from the cast of "RHONY" who continues to be actively involved in Sonja's life is Bethenny, who showered her co-star with praise after her "Work Done" music video, filmed to highlight Fiber One's newly "re-done" brownies, dropped last week.

SEE ALSO: Why Sonja Morgan felt 'uncomfortable' during the 'RHONY' Hamptons trip last season

"Bethenny said, 'I don’t give compliments often, but this is the real deal,'" Sonja laughed, before going on to praise her music video co-stars for their support during their video shoot in Mexico City.

 

 

"Melissa Gorga does not do music videos unless they’re the real deal!" she said. "I’m more the comedian, but they were really the bomb. They were so supportive. Everybody asked me what it was like working with them and I’m like, 'We’re women supporting women, we’re moms supporting moms!' We support each other in every way."

"We're inspiring women to be the best they can be and don’t be shy about the little bit of work they’ve had done," she added of the project. "Fiber One is out there being honest, like, ‘Hey, we’ve gotten a little work done!’ I was always saying that the bar was fine and people have been eating it for 15-plus years, but it’s even better now, and I feel the same way: Everyone’s been snacking on this for a long time, but it’s even better now with a little work done." 

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Shereé Whitfield, "Real Housewives of Atlanta" (Seasons 1-4 and 9-10)

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Phaedra Parks, "Real Housewives of Atlanta" (Seasons 3-9)

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Michaele Salahi, "Real Housewives of D.C." (Season 1)

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Jeana Keough, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Seasons 1-5)

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Lauri Waring Peterson, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Seasons 1-4)

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Jo De La Rosa, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Seasons 1-2)

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Kimberly Bryant, "Real Housewives Orange County" (Season 1)

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Tammy Knickerbocker, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Seasons 2-3)

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Quinn Fry, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Season 3)

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Gretchen Rossi, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Seasons 4-8)

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Lynne Curtin, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Seasons 4-5)

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Alexis Bellino, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Seasons 5-8)

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Peggy Tanous, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Season 6)

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Lydia McLaughlin, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Season 8, returned for season 12)

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Lizzie Rovsek, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Season 9)

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Heather Dubrow, "Real Housewives of Orange County" (Seasons 7-11)

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Alec McCord, "Real Housewives of New York City" (Seasons 1-4)

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Jill Zarin, "Real Housewives of New York City" (Seasons 1-4)

(Credit Image: é Nancy Kaszerman/ZUMA Press)

Kelly Bensimon, "Real Housewives of New York City" (Seasons 2-4)

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Cindy Barshop, "Real Housewives of New York City" (Season 4)

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Aviva Drescher, "Real Housewives of New York City" (Seasons 5-6)

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Kristen Taekman, "Real Housewives of New York City" (Seasons 6-7)

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Heather Thompson, "Real Housewives of New York City" (Seasons 5-7)

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Jules Wainstein, "Real Housewives of New York City" (Season 8)

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DeShawn Snow, "Real Housewives of Atlanta" (Season 1)

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Kim Zolciak-Biermann, "Real Housewives of Atlanta" (Seasons 1-5, friend on season 10)

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Lisa Wu-Hartwell, "Real Housewives of Atlanta" (Seasons 1-2)

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NeNe Leakes, "Real Housewives of Atlanta" (Seasons 1-7, returned for season 10)

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Kim Fields, "Real Housewives of Atlanta" (Season 8)

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Claudia Jordon, "Real Housewives of Atlanta" (Season 7)

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Jacqueline Laurita, "Real Housewives of New Jersey" (Seasons 1-5, 7)

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Caroline Manzo, "Real Housewives of New Jersey" (Seasons 1-5)

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Danielle Staub, "Real Housewives of New Jersey" (Seasons 1-2, returned as a friend for season 8)

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Teresa Aprea, "Real Housewives of New Jersey" (Season 6)

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Amber Marchese, "Real Housewives of New Jersey" (Season 6)

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Dina Manzo, "Real Housewives of New Jersey" (Seasons 1-2, 6)

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Nicole Napolitano, "Real Housewives of New Jersey" (Season 6)

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Siggy Flicker, "Real Housewives of New Jersey" (Seasons 7-8)

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Kathy Wakile, "Real Housewives of New Jersey"(Seasons 3-5)

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Taylor Armstrong, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Seasons 1-3)

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Adrienne Maloof, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Seasons 1-3)

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Camille Grammer, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Seasons 1-2)

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Carlton Gebbia, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Season 4)

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Joyce Giraud, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Season 4)

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Kim Richards, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Seasons 1-5)

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Kathryn Edwards, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Season 6)

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Yolanda Hadid, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Seasons 3-6)

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Brandi Glanville, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Seasons 3-5)

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Larsa Pippen, "Real Housewives of Miami" (Season 1)

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Cristy Rice, "Real Housewives of Miami" (Season 1)

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Lea Black, "Real Housewives of Miami" (Seasons 1-3)

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Adriana de Moura, "Real Housewives of Miami" (Seasons 1-3)

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Alexia Echevarria, "Real Housewives of Miami" (Seasons 1 & 3)

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Marysol Patton, "Real Housewives of Miami (Seasons 1-2)

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Lisa Hochstein, "Real Housewives of Miami" (Seasons 2-3)

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Joanna Krupa, "Real Housewives of Miami" (Seasons 2-3)

(Photo by Gustavo Caballero/Getty Images)

Ana Quincoces, "Real Housewives of Miami" (Season 2)

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Karent Sierra, "Real Housewives of Miami" (Season 2)

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Cat Ommanney, "Real Housewives of D.C." (Season 1)

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Stacie Scott Turner, "Real Housewives of D.C." (Season 1)

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Katie Rost, "Real Housewives of Potomac" (Season 1)

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Mary Amons, "Real Housewives of D.C." (Season 1)

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Lynda Erkiletian, "Real Housewives of D.C." (Season 1)

(Photo by Paul Morigi/WireImage)

Tiffany Hendra, "Real Housewives of Dallas" (Season 1)

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Katie Rose, "Real Housewives of Potomac" (Season 1)

(Photo by: Tommy Garcia/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty Images)

Charrisse Jackson-Jordan, "Real Housewives of Potomac" (Seasons 1-2)

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Eileen Davidson, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Seasons 5-7)

(Photo by: Michael Larsen/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty Images)

Kathryn Edwards, "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" (Season 6)

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