Shop the Best Vibrating Panties for a ‘Blend of Secrecy, Excitement, and Intimacy’

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Imagine you’re sitting in a cozy restaurant booth with your significant other. You’re in public, but it feels like it’s just the two of you. Then, you start to feel a rumbling sensation…down there.

“Vibrating panties are about more than just the physical sensations; they’re a blend of secrecy, excitement, and intimacy,” says Aliyah Moore, Ph.D., a certified sex therapist. Picture a regular pair of underwear with room for a wearable vibrator in the lining. Many also come with a remote control, so you or a partner can control the vibrations for a hands-free experience. “The discreet pleasure combined with the public setting can heighten the overall experience,” Moore adds.

Meet the experts: Rachel Needle, a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist; Aliyah Moore, Ph.D., a certified sex therapist; and Amanda Vee, a certified sex coach and clinical sexologist.

While they might sound gimmicky to some, they offer plenty of opportunities for real pleasure. “Vibrating panties can be incredibly arousing,” says Rachel Needle, a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist. “With your consent, the person with the remote control can turn them on whenever, increasing the thrill with the element of anticipation and a pleasant surprise.”

The best vibrating panties are easy to wash, fit well, and are pretty quiet, according to Amanda Vee, a certified sex coach and clinical sexologist. She also suggests considering whether you want an insertable vibrator or one that’s external. “There are magnetic vibrators that are ergonomically shaped for vulva and clitoral stimulation, as well as insertable egg vibrators, bullet-shaped vibrators, and G-spot stimulating vibes,” Vee notes.

Our top picks:

Keep scrolling shop the best vibrating panties, according to sex experts and customer reviews.

Wearable Vibrator

Vee suggests trying out the Aya wearable vibrator by Zalo. “It’s got a rumbly vibration (as opposed to ‘buzzy,’ which can become numbing) and comes with a small G-spot attachment,” she says. While it doesn’t come with a pair of underwear, you can wear it with any panties in your collection. It even comes with a magnet to keep it in place.

What the Reviews Say: “I love this toy for solo or partner play! It’s very comfortable and powerful,” said a shopper. “The app offers different mode settings as well as the option to sync to music. Easy to charge, use, and clean.”

Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Panty Vibrator

“These undies offer a staggering 96 vibration combinations [12 speeds and eight patterns], ensuring most couples find their ideal setting,” says Moore. “The design is discreet with a case that doesn’t hint at being a sex toy, and it even comes with adaptable side-tie panties, making it versatile for various body sizes.” Plus, it’s quiet, will last up to 120 minutes on a full charge, and is waterproof.

What the Reviews Say: “Three years later and I still love this toy!” wrote one user. “My partner and I like to use this toy when we go out for dinner sometimes. It’s fairly quiet, but I am quite cautious, so we only use it in more private seating like a ‘snug’ booth.”

Flexer Wearable Panty Vibrator

“Lovense Flexer is a great insertable panty vibe for people with G-spots,” according to Vee. “It actually moves with the famous ‘come hither’ motion,” she adds. The vibe offers seven patterns for external and internal stimulation. You can control it via app for play anywhere anytime, making it a great option for long-distance couples.

What the Reviews Say: “This is a game changer for long distance play. I have almost everything from the Lovense line, and I always like what I get. However, this one takes the cake.”

Moxie+

You can control this little clitoral vibrator with an app or remote control. It features 10 rumbly vibration patterns that are powerful yet quiet for discretion. It secures to underwear with a magnet that attaches to the outside of the vibrator, keeping it in place as you walk around if you want to wear it in public.

What the Reviews Say: “Let me tell you, this was powerful pleasure and always a little fun for outside play,” wrote a user. “The secret success is to wear tight fitting panties for the vibe to magnetize and stay in place for the ultimate in pleasure and remote play.”

Starla + Calista

Not only does this set come with a powerful bullet vibrator, but it also includes a cheeky pair of panties with lace and mesh details. This is the only set on our list that offers underwear that come in multiple sizes, rather than one-size-fits-all or adjustable panties. Simply slip the vibe into the custom cotton gusset of the panties, then control what happens next with the remote control. It has seven vibration modes and three intensity levels.

Rechargeable Remote Control Panty Vibrator

This panty vibrator comes with a remote control for flipping between three speeds and seven vibration patterns. Its molded tip stimulates the clitoris for targeted pleasure. Small and quiet enough to use in public, you can slip this vibe into any pair of panties you own for hands-free play.

What the Reviews Say: “I got this for my partner and I to have a little fun with,” wrote a reviewer. “We went out for dinner, and let’s just say it was a very interesting meal. The vibrations from this device were amazing...I love the design and the color, [and it] fits well in my undies, 10/10 for me.”

BlueMotion Nex1 Wearable Panty Vibrator

Moore recommends this vibrator that comes with a silicone vibrator that fits seamlessly into the included pair of lace panties. The vibe is contoured for comfort with a raised bump on the top for clitoral stimulation while vibrations are sent through the entire device, covering the labia. You or a partner can control it with an app for hands-free fun at home, in the car, or even in public.

What the Reviews Say: “Adds a little spice to a relationship that is long distance.”

Pleasure Panty Remote Control

“It features intense vibrations and doubles as an excellent bullet vibe for dildos with a base hole,” says Moore. “Though not the quietest toy, its powerful sensations make it perfect for quick pleasure sessions, especially in louder environments.” This one is rechargeable and comes with a remote control for swapping between 15 settings.

What the Reviews Say: “I really love this item. It’s absolutely amazing and stimulates just right.”

Jive

A wearable G-spot vibrator, the We-Vibe Jive is pricey, but worth the investment if you crave internal stimulation and on-the-go fun. It offers 10 modes, including waves, pluses, and teasing, for deep vibrations and fits comfortably thanks to its contoured shape. The vibe will alert you when it needs a recharge, so it’s always ready for action when you are.

What the Reviews Say: “This thing is amazing! The vibrations are strong, but it is so quiet, and the app makes it such a fun way to play.”

Fantasy For Her Cheeky Panty Thrill-Her Vibe in Purple

Moore recommends this vibrating panties set because it’s battery powered and compatible with all lube types. “It offers a delightful buzzy sensation with 20 functions and fits effortlessly into its panty pocket,” she says. Remote controlled, the bullet style vibe tucks neatly into the crotch of the included panties, though you can use it on its own, too.

What the Reviews Say: “My boyfriend and I love this so much!” said one reviewer. Another gave it an “A+++” rating.

Rimming Plug Petite

While wearable vibrators typically bring to mind clitoral stimulation, one of Vee’s picks is this rimming plug from B-Vibe. She calls it “a fabulous anal toy, which can be enjoyed by all.” For more experienced sex toy users, this is a great option for wearable fun. It vibrates with a remote control—though that’s optional—and has rotating beads to stimulate rimming.

What the Reviews Say: “I think I may have met my all-time favorite anal toy. The plug is solid yet comfortable and offers an amazingly intense vibrator in the tip coupled with a wonderfully unique rimming sensation for your hole.”

Screaming O Ergonomic Vibrating Panty Set

This set includes a pair of lace panties with stretchy side ties to fit up to a 60-inch waist. They come with a pocket to hold the silicone, remote-controlled vibrator in place. It’s waterproof and lasts for up to an hour on a full charge.

What the Reviews Say: “These panties were amazing. It kept things spicy for foreplay.”

Original Venus Butterfly Vibrator

This wearable vibrator has a unique butterfly shape and stays put with adjustable straps. It operates with a remote control that offers multiple speeds and runs on AA batteries. While it’s not the highest quality option on this list, it’s a great choice if you’re not looking to spend a lot of money on a new toy.

What the Reviews Say: “OMG! Amazing! The way you put it on was a little confusing, but we loved it.”

Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator

If bullet vibes aren’t your thing, try out an egg vibrator instead. It’s designed to be fully inserted into the vagina (you can use water-based lube to make this more comfortable), and it has a cord attached for easy removal. The egg produces eight vibration patterns with 12 levels of intensity that you or a partner can control with a remote.

What the Reviews Say: “It was extremely powerful yet my husband couldn’t hear it at all—he could definitely hear me enjoying it though,” said one reviewer. “It definitely adds an extra excitement to meals out and nights out when we’re in a room full of people and they have no idea what we’re up to.”

Top Secret Connect App

This vibrator has a wide, flat base and internal G-spot arm, making it comfortable to wear and enjoy just about anywhere. It give strong vibrations you or a partner can control through an app—you can even edit preset programs for customized pleasure every time. The vibe is pretty quiet and comes with a USB charging cable to keep it ready for action.

What the Reviews Say: “This was my first toy, and it was a surprise for my husband. This product worked so well! The app literally blows my mind. My favorite function is the ability to sync it to my music library!”

How to choose the best vibrating panties

✔️ Consider materials. “Common panty materials include mesh, lace, nylon, cotton, latex, and leather. It’s essential to review product descriptions, especially if you have allergies, like those to latex,” says Moore. “For the vibrator, opt for non-toxic silicone or ABS [acrylonitrile butadiene styrene, a type of plastic], which are easy to clean.”

✔️ Think about how you’ll use them. You can choose between vibrating panties that are remote or app controlled. Apps are convenient and modern, but they won’t work if your phone dies, Moore points out. Remote versions may be more affordable and don’t rely on your phone.

✔️ Take volume into account. “Consider the volume of the vibrator,” says Vee. “Where do you plan on using it? If the answer is ‘in public,’ volume discretion is a real issue.”

✔️ Check out the intensity. Vibrators offer all kinds of modes and intensities, so you’ll want to pick one that provides your favorite kind of pleasure. “Recognize your sensitivity levels and choose accordingly,” Moore advises. “Some might like intense, rumbly vibrations, while others prefer a subtle sensation.”

✔️ Know the battery life. “Long-lasting battery or good play-to-charge ratio is always a plus,” says Moore.

The benefits of vibrating panties

Vibrating panties offer discreet, hands-free pleasure that you can enjoy solo or with a partner at home or in private. They’re versatile and fun, according to experts.

“Wearing a pleasure product allows so many hot options,” says Vee. “Some people want to spice up their sex lives by taking sexual titillation outside of the bedroom—maybe on dates or to a concert. Others want a hands-free experience and like to use a remote or phone app to control their vibrations in their underpants.”

How we chose the best vibrating panties

We tapped an array of sex experts to glean tips on how vibrating panties work, why someone might try a pair, and what to look for in this type of sex toy. Rachel Needle, a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist; Aliyah Moore, Ph.D., a certified sex therapist; and Amanda Vee, a certified sex coach and clinical sexologist provided insights that helped us pick the best vibrating panties available today. We also researched products from top, trusted brands and read customer reviews to narrow down this list.

Why trust us

For more than 70 years, Prevention has been a leading provider of trustworthy health information, empowering readers with practical strategies to improve their physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Our editors interview medical experts to help guide our health-focused product selections. Additionally, Prevention also examines hundreds of reviews—and often conducts personal testing done by our staff—to help you make informed decisions.

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