The 19 Best Prostate Massagers for Life-Changing Orgasms

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Newsflash for the kings, queens, and anyone with a penis who hasn't figured it out. The real male orgasmic spot is not actually penis. It's the prostate. If that was actually news to you, we're here to tell you that your orgasms can be better—around three times more intense, according to nerd scientists. Masturbators, condoms, and sex toys can all be part of your healthy sex life. But, all the paraphernalia in the world will not match hitting your P-spot. Whether that is via a partner or yourself working around in there, or a super hi-tech prostate massager, doesn't matter. The result is life changing. Some of you already knew that. Some of you are interested. That's why you're here, searching for the best prostrate massagers.

Before you stick anything in, you want to consider all of your options, as there are many and they vary in capabilities. Many are waterproof, and a lot of them can be remotely controlled, either by bluetooth or Wi-Fi. Most importantly, many come with the wisdom of a second external arm (more on that below). Our sex experts have done some market testing to discover these best 19 best prostate massagers. So, look through this list, figure out what works for you, ready your back door with a generous application of good lube, and have fun.

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For us, this is the prostate massager that stands out the most on this list. It's the one we recommend most whole-heartedly, especially if you're just starting to test out back door toys.

It's just a regular penetrative vibrator, but because of Maude's clever design—meaning the shape and length of this guy—it can hit a P-spot just as easily as a G-spot. There's no additional app you need to use. Five simple speeds, tasteful colors, and one of the best looking options on this list, it's a great first foray if you're just starting to explore or want something that actually looks good. Plus, you can buy it in a bundle with Maude's organic lube.

Wave-Motion Vibrating Prostate Massager

Here's another one that gets quite a lot of positive feedback, thanks to a shape that's not overly thick or long. The motion also mimics real finger play quite well, so you aren't too far removed from the real life thing. The included remote control makes it great for partner play, as well. More experienced users, be warned, as you'll probably want something a bit bigger.

Vibrating Prostate Massager with Cock Ring

Crank things up with a cock ring. Yes. While the ecstasy of prostate orgasm is intense enough to hit your whole nervous system, the addition of a snug cock ring—for a stronger, longer erection—can really dial things up. We won't sugarcoat it, but this best-seller on Amazon will blast you inside and out, hands-free-style.

Thrusting Vibrator

"What do 212 thrusts against your sweet spot per minute feel like?" Oh, you freak! But that's not a pie-in-the-sky fantasy. This massager delivers that—vibration and thrusting slightly up and down on its own—while simultaneously tantalizing other sensitive areas.

360° Rotating Vibrator Prostate Massager

Onto these "T"-shaped massagers. The long bottom bar is for, well, making sure the device doesn't get lost up in there, and stimulating the whole entry region, front to back. And the rod's head on this one doesn't just vibrate—it also circles around 360 degrees.

Revo Stealth Prostate Massager

Just as a product, as a piece of design, this Nexus Revo Stealth is sleek and quite beautiful. As a tool? Oh, baby. It's got six external vibration modes and two bidirectional rotation speeds for plenty of pleasure combos. The three-inch shaft and four-inch girth make it manageable for starters. But for the experienced, the Revo Extreme has the same perks, but with a six-inch girth.

Rechargeable P-Spot Probe Vibrator

Playing with this "banana" is very intuitive. Just slot in the bulbed shaft and it'll take you places. (With seven vibration modes, this is a guarantee.) The nifty LED panel handle lets you explore the modes seamlessly so you can control your big O.

Hugo

Lelo always offers the kinda luxury sex tech for the playtime that demands it. Its Hugo, let's just say, is the Rolls-Royce of prostate massagers: remote-controlled, fitted for most guys, has two vibrating motors to double your moan, and uses SenseMotion to match the vibration with your hand movement on the controller. Our advice: get creative on the last one.

Vector Prostate & Perineum Massaging Vibrator

While quite a few options on this list come with remote controls, Vector is designed for an insert-and-go experience. Both its prostate and perineum arms can be bent to hit the right places. Then, once you're all set, use We-Vibe's app to circle through the 10 vibration speeds—one is bound to make you blossom.

Helix Syn Trident

Okay, it does look and sound like it stings a little, but you may like it! Especially when the "trident" has a self-pivoting curved design to ergonomically stimulate your internal and external hot spots. The wide handles land a good grip so it'll stay put unless you move it. This one is ideal for a hands-free crescendo.

Simul8 Prostate Massager with Double Ring

A prostate stimulator, a cock ring, a ball ring, and 48 combinations of vibrations all in one—too much to handle? Not to mention the sizable 4-inches internal shaft. It’s almost impossible to fight the inevitable explosion.

Progasm Ice Prostate Massager

If you like the Trident, Progasm is its much girthier and larger iteration that'll make you satisfyingly, intensely full. Its curve pinpoints the spot, then the contoured head puts pressure directly onto it. And the clear option looks like an ice sculpt, which is great for being discreet.

Duke Rechargeable Vibrating Prostate Massager

I'm gonna put that in there? Yes. Duke's unique shape looks wild at first, but it's just engineered for easily accessing the P-spot and then staying exactly where you want it. The bulbous design will also give you a nice sense of fullness, and the curve puts plenty of pressure on your P-spot

Loki Wave

Loki Wave also delivers the fingering motion, which Lelo dubbed "come hither". When the tip moves back and forth, it's almost as if it's teasing you and beckoning you towards the climax. Very erotic. Costly? Yes. Worth it? Even more so.

Edge 2 Adjustable Prostate Vibrator

As an adjustable prostate massager, Edge 2 will hit your spot, wherever it is. Though a few trial-and-error sessions might be needed at first, once the flexible arm is adjusted to the right angle, the power motor on the large bulbs will handle the rest, acutely, merrily.

Vick Neo Prostate Massager

It doesn't look nearly half as scary as others, which is a good start. It's also small enough for newbies (the insertable length is safe at only 2.75 inches), can be app-controlled, and is quiet, despite having powerful dual motors—11 settings, my guy.

OptiMALE™ Rimming P-Massager

You might prefer taking it easy, meaning stimulating your prostate, perineum, and other erogenous sites one at a time. This massager lets you do that, with three separate controls for the shaft, base, and spinning ridges meant for the backdoor. That is also to say, you can mix and match the vibrations in different areas.

OptiMALE™ Vibrating P-Curve

If merely hitting it isn't enough—you want to literally hit onto the spot—check this out. The big contoured curved tip will direct and focus all the vibration on your internal bulb.

The Bow

This one isn't electric at all. And it's technically a thin, hefty double-ended dildo with bulbous ends and swirl ridges for targeted internal stimulation. Adventurous guys for millennia before us never had vibration or remote control. It'll slide in gently and press where you need it to. If you need more than that, you or a partner can add some movement.

The stainless steel skin, by the way, is good with any lubricant.

What and Where Is the Prostate?

Prostate is any penis owner’s reproductive gland responsible for producing parts of semen. It is located at the base of penis and a few inches inside the rectum—or, in layman’s term, two knuckles deep. It’s about the size of a walnut or ping pong ball, but bulbs outward, so it’s actually quite easy to find once you're in the area. And if you press against it via a finger or a penetrative sex toy, you essentially fire up the clump of sensitive nerve endings in it and turn in into an erogenous zone, i.e., the P-spot.

What Is Prostate Massage(r)?

First of all, your own fingers or your partner’s will do. (In fact, you should start with your finger then work your way up if you’re completely new to this). But if you're past that, electric prostate massagers can really zhuzh it up. Once you hit the switch on them, these sex toys will then hit your switch. Since gently massaging your P-spot with fingers already can lead to an out-of-body orgasm, just think of what pressing on it 10 times or more per second will do.

And it’d negligent if we don’t inform you the safety of prostate massage. It’s worth noting that prostate massage actually has several benefits to sexual health and performance. (Think longer, stronger erection. And better urine flow). And it may even help with enlarged or inflamed prostate. As for prostate massagers, so long as they’re sanitized, non-porous, made with body-safe materials like silicone or metal, and at a size you’re okay with—don’t force yourself—then, game on.

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