'I don't think I can help you': Georgia man can solve all his problems and potentially live debt-free if only he can let go of a property with sentimental value. Dave Ramsey gives up hope
Home is where the heart is, as the saying goes, but sometimes this attachment can hinder your family’s financial goals.
Jacob from Macon, Georgia, is facing such a challenge. He seems to be on the verge of living debt-free and securing his family’s financial future. All he has to do is sell a second home he owns in another state. However, he’s reluctant to take this step because the house has sentimental value.
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So, he called Dave Ramsey for advice. But the personal finance expert was baffled at Jacob's unwillingness to make what he believes is the obvious choice.
“I don’t think I can help you, man,” Ramsey told him during an episode of "The Ramsey Show."
Like Jacob, many Americans could significantly reshape their personal finances with some practical and pragmatic real estate decisions.
Nearly debt-free
Jacob says his family lives in a home on 42.5 acres of land, and he also owns another house in Kentucky. The family has been working hard and aggressively deleveraging in recent years.
“We did something crazy," he said. "We went all out to pay as much debt as humanly possible.”
Jacob and his wife pulled in a combined income of $210,000 last year, much of which was deployed in paying off lenders. The family is now nearly debt-free, with only $260,000 in mortgage debt left on the family home. They have roughly $19,000 in cash and savings, and he says the house in Kentucky is fully paid off.
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Jacob works in construction and took a job out of state in order to maximize his income. But he was laid off, and rather than continue working at a reduced wage back home, he's considering being a stay-at-home dad to his two daughters.
He also wants to put the family's land to good use by doing some farming, and is tempted to apply for an auto loan to get a tractor worth $60,000. Ramsey believes such a move would jeopardize the family's progress.
“You know that we tell people not to borrow money and you called here wanting to finance a tractor?” Ramsey asked.
This new loan could be easily avoided if Jacob sells the Kentucky home and buys a used tractor for cash at half the price, Ramsey says. However, that’s an option Jacob hasn’t considered.
Sentimental value
Jacob estimates the house in Kentucky is worth between $200,000 and $220,000. Selling this house could not only fund Jacob’s tractor, it could also significantly lower the mortgage on the family home in Georgia.
For Ramsey, it’s an easy decision. However, Jacob admits he’s emotionally attached to the unit because he purchased it when he was a young student.
“I had it for going to bible college,” Jacob said.
“Who cares?” Ramsey responded. “Jesus didn’t live there.”
A sense of attachment to a home is common, and letting go of all the emotional memories attached to a space can be difficult for some.
But if Jacob can overcome this mental barrier, his family’s journey to a debt-free lifestyle could be severely shortened. Similarly, many homeowners and potential buyers could be in a significantly better position if they emotionally detached from their home while making financial decisions.
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