The Best Would You Rather Questions for Couples to Ask Each Other
Whether you’ve been with your partner for a long time or you’re embarking on a brand new relationship, it can be hard to think out of the box for date night. Nights out for dinner or the movies are always fun, but there is something intimate and special about staying home and getting to know each other better. Enter: would you rather questions for couples!
This list of questions is a fun couple game that is intended to help you get to know who your person is at their core and get a better picture of how you both are similar or different. Find fun questions that will determine likes and dislikes you and your partner share, flirty questions to turn up the heat, and meaningful questions to spark some deep conversation below.
Feel free to look at this list like a buffet and take what questions you’re curious to ask, leaving behind the ones you may not feel comfortable with yet. Our editors (and relationship therapist/dating coach Joy Berkheimer, Ph.D.), helped us to form the extensive list of questions below. Fair warning—this game may just take your date nights to the next level.
Funny “Would You Rather” Questions to Ask Your Partner
Would you rather spend our days off in bed, watching movies and eating ice cream and popcorn, or would you rather be outdoors, hiking all day, fending off the wild and soaking in the Vitamin D?
Would you rather wear sweatpants for the rest of your life (including funerals and weddings) or have to wear sparkles to everything?
Would you rather have every meal you eat for the rest of your life be a little too spicy, or a little too sweet?
Would you rather only have summers for the rest of your life, or only winters?
Would you rather get stuck in an elevator with someone you hate or be stuck alone?
Would you rather not eat your favorite meal ever again or have to eat only that meal forever?
Would you rather wear the same outfit for a year or switch closets with me?
Would you rather have a picnic together or go to a fancy dinner?
Would you rather be invisible or be able to read someone’s mind?
Would you rather have your forever home in a tiny town or a big city?
Would you rather be too hot or too cold forever?
Would you rather be itchy for the rest of your life or sticky?
Would you rather speak all the languages of the world or be able to speak to animals?
Would you rather go back ten years into the past or go forward ten years into the future?
Would you rather have a major pay raise or move to the place of your dreams?
Would you rather go to space or explore the depths of the ocean?
Would you rather endure your partner with a bad breath or body odor?
Would you rather have your partner wake up barking like a dog or meowing like a cat?
Would you rather be the funniest person in the room or the most attractive?
Would you rather go on a beach vacation or explore a new city?
Would you rather be with someone who is totally covered in body hair or has no hair at all?
Would you rather give up caffeine or alcohol forever?
Would you rather lose your sense of smell or your sense of taste?
Would you rather be forced to sing along or dance along to every song you hear?
Would you rather go on tour with your favorite band or star in your own movie?
Flirty “Would You Rather” Questions to Ask Your Partner
Would you rather be the big spoon or little spoon?
Would you rather have morning sex or late-night sex?
Would you rather give or receive?
Would you rather receive a sexy message, or a love note?
Would you rather receive cheek kisses or forehead kisses?
Would you rather have sex in the car or in the shower?
Would you rather I show you or tell you about my desires?
Would you rather have more role play or more foreplay?
Would you rather give or receive a lap dance?
Would you rather have a sex playlist with classical music on it or hardcore rock?
Would you rather be caught masturbating or having sex?
Would you rather get a sensual shoulder rub or foot rub from your partner?
Would you rather only be able to be on the bottom during sex, or only on the top?
Would you rather only have sex in bed for the rest of your life or never be able to have sex in a bed again?
Would you rather have a cupboard full of sex toys or a cupboard full of sexy outfits?
Would you rather never have oral sex again, or only have oral sex forever?
Would you rather never wear underwear again or never wear socks again?
Would you rather sneeze every time you orgasm, or orgasm every time you sneeze?
Would you rather always have sex in the dark or never be able to have sex in the dark again?
Would you rather be focused on being romantic or being dirty?
Would you rather show affection in public or in private?
Would you rather long, slow sex every time or always have a quickie?
Would you rather go skinny dipping or join the mile high club?
Would you rather kiss me here…or here?
What would you rather have an endless voucher book for; your favorite meal or your best love making session ever, to be repeated on demand? You can only have one book!
Meaningful “Would You Rather” Questions to Ask Your Partner
Would you rather your partner outlive you or you outlive your partner?
Would you rather have more time, or more money?
Would you rather lose the ability to see, or the ability to walk?
Would you rather know the date of your death or the cause of your death?
Would you rather achieve all of your career goals but have no time for family or have all the time for family but not achieve everything you want to at work?
Would you rather have no emotions or be able to deeply feel every little thing?
Would you rather get to forget your worst memory, or get to better remember your best memory?
Would you rather not be able to tell a lie, or not be able to tell the truth?
Would you rather die quickly with no pain or die slowly with pain just to be with your loved ones for a while?
Would you rather receive a thoughtful gift or an expensive one from your partner?
Would you rather only get good morning texts or goodnight texts?
Would you rather have a partner with a possibly life-threatening job or a totally time-consuming job?
Would you rather experience the world beginning or ending?
Would you rather be homeless or in prison?
Would you rather be infamous or unknown?
Would you rather have more hours in a day or more days in a week?
Would you rather have three great friends or 20 average friends?
Would you rather have six kids or not be able to have any?
Would you rather plan your days out or live for the moment?
Would you rather make your partner happy with a white lie or tell the blunt truth?
Would you rather give up your night’s sleep and resolve an issue or go to sleep and resolve it in the morning?
Would you rather have more money but less quality time together, or less money and more quality time together?
Would you rather live ten years longer with regrets or die ten years early with no regrets?
Would you rather be really personally fulfilled or really professionally fulfilled?
Would you rather keep our relationship closed and monogamous or be open to exploring other people and experiences while still in our relationship?
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