Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's Marriage Is 'Not in the Best Place at the Moment' (Exclusive Source)

Another source says despite what's going on between Affleck and Lopez, "nothing has stopped their love"

<p>Christopher Polk/Golden Globes 2024/Golden Globes 2024 via Getty </p> Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez Jan. 7, 2024

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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez Jan. 7, 2024

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez’s marriage “is not in the best place at the moment,” a source connected to Lopez reveals in the new issue of PEOPLE.

The talk of issues between the Air actor-director, 51, and the “Waiting for Tonight” singer, 54, who have been living apart from each other recently according to sources, comes less than two years after they eloped in Las Vegas and celebrated with a reception in Georgia that Lopez described as a “dream.”

But reality is now settling in as the charismatic Lopez and the more reserved Affleck deal with their differing personalities and different views on what to share about their personal lives.

“She likes to open her heart to her fans and to the world,” a music source says of Lopez, who is residing in the couple’s $60 million Beverly Hills marital home while Affleck bunks in a rental a few miles away. “He is more introspective and private. This has been difficult day-to-day.”

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Their differences were laid bare in Lopez’s The Greatest Love Story Never Told, a documentary she filmed while making the movie This Is Me…Now: A Love Story. In the doc, which debuted on Prime Video in February, Affleck talked about rekindling their romance in 2021, 17 years after their high-profile relationship fell apart under the weight of “Bennifer”-mania.

<p>Chelsea Lauren/Shutterstock</p> Jennifer Lopez attended the May 20 'Atlas' premiere without Affleck, who was filming

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Jennifer Lopez attended the May 20 'Atlas' premiere without Affleck, who was filming

“Getting back together, I said, ‘Listen, one of the things I don’t want is a relationship on social media,’ ” said Affleck, who shares children Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Sam, 12, with ex-wife Jennifer Garner, 52. “Then I sort of realized it’s not a fair thing to ask. It’s sort of like, you’re gonna marry a boat captain and you go, ‘Well, I don’t like the water.’ ”

He added that he and Lopez, who has 16-year-old twins Max and Emme with ex-husband Marc Anthony, were “two people with different kinds of approaches trying to learn to compromise.”

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez on the cover of PEOPLE
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez on the cover of PEOPLE

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Despite Affleck’s participation in The Greatest Love Story Never Told (and other projects, like her 2002 music video for “Jenny From the Block”), a film source says he’s never been completely comfortable showcasing his romance with Lopez to the world.

But at the same time, he has never wanted to stand in the way of who she is as an artist. “He’s always been impressed about how she works so hard and has achieved so much success,” says the film source. “But the openness and promotion is not his way.”

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<p>Michael Buckner/Golden Globes 2024/Golden Globes 2024 via Getty</p> Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez on Jan. 7, 2024

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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez on Jan. 7, 2024

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Lopez, who self-financed This is Me...Now: A Love Story and the documentary and is launching a 30-show North American tour this summer to promote her new album This is Me...Now, can get irked that Affleck is not as “structured or disciplined in general as Jennifer,” says the film source. “This is not a bad thing. But it causes frustration.”

But at the same time, he has never wanted to stand in the way of who she is as an artist. “He’s always been impressed about how she works so hard and has achieved so much success,” says the film source. “But the openness and promotion is not his way.”

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<p>BACKGRID</p> Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez smiled as they left a May 19 event

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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez smiled as they left a May 19 event

The film source says it’s too soon to say what will happen to the couple. “I don’t know if they will split, or if this is something they will work through,” says the source.

One thing is certain: Though they have problems, Affleck and Lopez also share a deep bond that spans two decades. Says the music source, “There have always been clashes in their styles and how they handle issues, but nothing has stopped their love over the years.”

For more on Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez, pick up the new issue of PEOPLE, on newsstands Friday.

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