Woman kicked out of pool for a 'too inappropriate' body

Tyler Newman and his fiancée, Tori, decided to spend a sweltering hot day at their apartment complex's pool.

According to Newman, the Tennessee couple pays an additional $300 fee to have access to the pool, on top of their monthly rent. So, on a particularly hot summer day, Tori and Tyler changed into their bathing suits and accompanied their friends to the pool.

But what happened next is angering many. The couple claims that Tori was asked to leave the pool because of her "inappropriate" bathing suit and her "too inappropriate" body. Tyler posted a recount of the interaction on social media, where it has since gone viral.

According to his story, Tori was asked to leave because of her "thong bathing suit" after a mere "3 minutes" of arriving at the pool. So, she decided to go to the apartment's management complex to discuss the issue in a more private setting.

There, the leasing consultant wanted to take a picture of Tori to "show "how inappropriate" her bathing suit was" and encourage her to look in the mirror.

Tyler explained in the post:

"She was told that the leasing consultant wouldn't want her own kids around Tori. When Tori explained that yes, she does indeed have a larger butt than a lot of people, and that 95% of the things she wears ride up when she walks, the woman told Tori that a "normal bathing suit covers your entire butt" and again deemed my fiancée's body inappropriate. Tori, however, refused this because there are obviously different types of bathing suits. She was told I wasn't allowed to spray tanning lotion on parts of her body that she can't reach because the consultant insisted that she could reach them herself."

Then, the leasing consultant said her curvy body was "too inappropriate" for children to be near. "There are a lot of teenage boys in this complex, and you don't need to excite them," the consultant said, according to Tyler.

Commenters on social media questioned if the pool had made its dress code clear to its guests. According to Tyler, all that was posted on the pool sign was "duly appropriate attire must be worn at all times. No cut-offs."

Tyler's words recounted how embarrassed and hurt Tori was because of how many reacted to her outfit.

"Today my fiancée was told that she is less important than how men feel around her. That Tori is less important than a man's urges to be sexual towards her. I think she's the most beautiful woman in the world, but I also respect her. I would never make her or any other woman feel less than what she's worth because of her outfit or her looks. This is how rape culture continues to grow," he said.

While some expressed their sympathy for Tori, others were critical of the story. "Sad she is playing the victim," one commented on Tyler's post.

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Stars who fought back against body shaming

 Chrissy Metz

“This Is Us” star Chrissy Metz talked back to body shamers over a latex dress she wore to the MTV Movie & TV Awards in 2017.

"For the record, I wear what I want, when I want. News flash it's MY body. #thankstho," she tweeted.

(Photo by Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic)

Amy Schumer

The comedian hasn't been shy about her body, but last year she posted a swimsuit picture on Instagram in an effort to bait and then lambaste body shamers.

This came a month after Schumer called out Glamour magazine for featuring her in its “Chic at Any Size” special issue.

“Plus size is considered size 16 in America,” Schumer wrote on Instagram. “I go between a size 6 and an 8."

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Daisy Ridley

Last March, an Instagram user posted a photo of Ridley as Rey with a speech bubble that read “I can’t believe the unrealistic expectations I’m setting for young girls. Who cast me anyway? Don’t they know that real women have curves?”

Ridley responded to the troll with a screen grab of their original post and comment that said, “‘Real women’ are all shapes and sizes, all ethnicities, all levels of brave, have families, don’t have families. I am a ‘real women’ like every other woman in this world.”

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Lady Gaga

Following Gaga’s Super Bowl LI halftime show this year, some internet trolls decided to mock her appearance and her “flabby belly."

She struck back at her body shamers with a message of personal acceptance.

“I heard my body is a topic of conversation so I wanted to say, I’m proud of my body and you should be proud of yours too,” Gaga wrote on Instagram. “No matter who you are or what you do. I could give you a million reasons why you don’t need to cater to anyone or anything to succeed. Be you, and be relentlessly you. That’s the stuff of champions. thank you so much everyone for supporting me. I love you guys. Xoxo, gaga.”

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Vin Diesel

After photos surfaced of Vin Diesel with a “softer” physique than fans are used to, the actor said, “I do think it’s wrong to body shame. Trolls on the Internet — there are all kinds of atrocities they commit on the Internet.”

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Emma Thompson

In an interview on Swedish talk show “Skavlan,” Thompson spoke out against Hollywood for triggering anorexic behavior in actors. “The anorexia … there are so many kids, girls and boys now, and actresses who are very, very thin that are into their 30’s and simply don’t eat. They don’t eat,” she said.

She then said she defended one actress on set when she was told to lose weight.

“I said to them, ‘If you speak to her about this again, on any level, I will leave this picture, you are never to do that.'”

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Demi Lovato

In an interview with Glamour last year, the singer said, "If somebody calls me fat, even in a vulnerable moment, I laugh to myself and think, I’m doing everything I can, so there’s nothing I can do about it.

"I don’t have a six-pack. Maybe I don’t even want a six-pack. It doesn’t sound very appealing."

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J.K. Rowling

According to Allure, Rowling posted a photo of her standing alongside Serena Williams when someone commented that Williams was "built like a man." But being the legend that Rowling is, she posted a photo of Williams rocking a form-fitting red dress with the caption, "Yeah, my husband looks just like this in a dress. You're an idiot." 

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Emma Stone

While the actress was promoting "Spider-Man" she said that she had been profoundly affected by nasty comments made about her appearance online. 

"I firmly believe that nothing really affects you or can really bother you if you don't already feel that way about yourself. I've seen a lot of comments that say, 'Eat a sandwich' or 'She looks sick.' I've been looking at myself in the mirror being mean to myself. I'm not sick. I eat sandwiches," she says. "There is in no way is it my intention to be a bad example. That has been kind of bothering me lately. I've shamed myself for it. We shame each other online. We're always too skinny or too fat or too tall or too short. They're just confirming this feeling I have about myself. I'm trying to figure my body out. It bothers me because I care so much about young girls. We're shaming each other and we're shaming ourselves, and it sucks."

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Kim Kardashian West

When people made fun of the weight she gained during her pregnancy, she fired back on Twitter.

"Anyone who has had a baby knows how hard it is to lose weight...your body totally changes! Making fun of me pregnant and making fun of me trying to lose weight now, shame on you. I'm not perfect but I will never conform to your skinny standards sorry!"

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Lauren Ash

A little over a year ago, the "Superstore" actress posted a post-workout selfie to put body shamers to rest.

"Just a friendly reminder that size 12 women workout," she wrote. "We're not disgusting and lazy just because we aren't a size 0. (And hey, if someone chooses to be lazy it's really also no one's else's business.) #effyourbeautystandards #bodypositivity #honormycurves #celebratemysize #daretowear"

 (Photo by Maarten de Boer/NBC/NBC via Getty Images)

Sasha Pieterse

When the "Pretty Little Liars" actress noticed some comments about her fluctuating body, she took to Instagram to write, "As a lot of you have noticed my body has gone through some changes, and I want to clear the air and give you an explanation. I have been facing a bad hormone imbalance that has thrown my body completely out of whack. I want to assure you that I'm healthy and getting everything back on track! A big thanks to all of you who have been in my corner! We live in such a judge mental society that puts every kind of flaw, including weight gain, in the same category. And for those of you who are struggling with any health problem, hormone imbalance, and weight gain of any sort I urge and encourage you to please deal with it in a healthy manor. YOU and YOUR health are what matters, not anyone else's opinions and assumptions of you. Getting healthy isn't just about working out and eating right (however extremely important) it's also about surrounding yourself with those who care about you and want to see you succeed and become the best you can be."

(Photo by D Dipasupil/FilmMagic)

Alyssa Milano

When Jay Mohr made fun of Alyssa Milano's body for her baby weight, Milano tweeted, "So sorry you felt the need to publicly fat-shame me. Be well and God Bless. Please send my love to your beautiful wife."

(Photo by Michael Tran/FilmMagic)

Jennifer Lawrence

In an 2014 interview with Harper's Bazaar, Lawrence recounted a moment she was told that she would be fired if she didn't lose weight.

"I know it'll never happen to me again. If anybody even tries to whisper the word 'diet,' I'm like, 'You can go f--- yourself.'"

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Sam Smith

In 2015, Howard Stern called Sam Smith a "fat ugly motherf----." Smith's response? "Can't believe what I've just read. Ignore."

 REUTERS/Danny Moloshok

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