Budgeting for Baby

Budgeting for Baby

When Elle Martinez and her husband found out they were having a baby, one of their initial thoughts was that they needed to be financially prepared. During the process of building their baby fund, the first-time parents learned several valuable lessons that made the transition much easier.

To start, the North Carolina residents communicated with each other to figure out what their goals were. "We sat down as a couple and we talked about what kind of strategy would work so we would be focused on the baby when she came instead of focusing on our money," Martinez says.

They had some emergency savings, but the couple wanted to "double up" on it in anticipation of their daughter, so they created an automated savings account. As online bankers, they set things up so that a specific amount of money would be deducted from their account and deposited to their baby fund on payday. This "forced savings" method eliminated any possibility of deviating from the plan. "We needed to have a financial system we could keep," Martinez explains.

Another way they saved was by reaching out to friends and family. Knowing that their network wanted to contribute, they were able to tap their loved ones to design and decorate their baby room as a gift. This helped to keep their baby fund in tact.

Finally, Martinez and her husband looked at their finances and found that Elle could work from home once the baby came. This helped the couple save on childcare, another extra expense the new parents didn't have to undertake.

Now the Martinez family is expecting a second child for which they are quite prepared. Elle adds, "We feel like going through the process with our first one, with Lily, has brought us together, and it's also helped our finances that we're really less stressed the second time around."

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Says one mama, "For the six or so months prior to baby's birth, we lived on my husband's salary alone and put (almost) everything that I made into a cash fund. This gets you used to living on one income and gives you time to figure out what cuts you need to make, while still giving you a buffer."
Wait until you're used to the baby before buying cribs, changing tables, expensive jogging strollers, and other big ticket items -- you never know, you may realize suddenly that you're a co-sleeper and your crib will end up, like ours, a laundry storage facility. Or you may discover that there's nothing you hate more than jogging with the baby (or conversely, that you love it and never want to 'perambulate' in that fancy carriage).
It's useful to evaluate your life and think, not "where can I save money?" but "where can I not spend at all?" I tried to hang on to the pre-baby travel schedule -- weekends at a bed & breakfast, occasional jaunts to San Francisco or Chicago or New York -- but really? I'm way happier now that I see a weekend coming and think about spending time at the farmer's market, or just sitting around the house baking cookies and knitting, instead of how I need to pack and plan and travel.
Have friends who love to meet after work for shopping, pedicures and pricey appetizers and cocktails at a local hotspot? I hate to tell you who to hang out with, but they may not be the ones for you, girlfriend. Meeting up on the mountain most weekends for black diamonds and beers? Either you'll have to convert your friends to your new thrifty lifestyle or you'll have to find some new ones. I met some amazing women at a "Naked Mamas Party" -- we brought our don't-fit-anymore clothes, a couple of bottles of wine and some munchies, and proceeded to "go shopping" through each other's cast-offs.
Does your family currently use two cars -- and are you making payments on either, or both, of them? If so, you should seriously ask yourself whether you could reduce or eliminate your car expenses. Could your working partner start commuting on public transit, or biking to work? Could you stay at home without a car? In Portland, Oregon, where I live, both my husband and I make do without any car, at all, and three young boys -- we bus, bike, walk and very occasionally catch a ride from a friend or family member, or use a car-share service. We figure we save $4000 or $5000 a year, and our car is all paid off. We save money, too, by not having the option of doing things as a family that would end up costing money -- like going to Costco on a Sunday afternoon and buying boxes of stuff we really could do without.
It may seem like the most obvious of all possible obviousness, but eating in -- and cooking from scratch instead of buying packaged food -- is the best way to save money. Not just that, but you can start controlling the health and quality of your food. Learn to bake bread (there are lots of easy recipes out there), make chili, eat local and seasonal, shop at the farmer's market. Learn to garden (if you are up for it) and freeze some bountiful produce for the winter. Maybe you'll discover new loves you never imagined. And studies show that it's just as fast to cook from scratch as to prepare meals using convenience foods (and I'd bet you don't save any time over going to a restaurant, what with travel and waiting for a table and all).
You may not have to COMPLETELY eliminate big box stores from your routine, but if you're going once a week you're in some big trouble. When you go to Target or the mall, bring a list and stick to it religiously. Don't buy anything on sale. Follow these rules for controlling spending, including the all-important "if it were $10 more, would I still buy it?" question. If the answer's no, save it. Impulse purchases are your enemy; remember the two-week waiting rule for anything over $5. (Go home, wait two weeks, and make a note of every time you wished you had it...)
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