Meg Ryan and John Mellencamp call off their engagement 8 years after romance began

Meg Ryan and John Mellencamp have reportedly called it quits, ending their engagement and relationship after 8 years of an on-and-off romance.

"She’d had enough and ended [their engagement]." an insider told Us Weekly. "She has no regrets."

The news comes nearly a year after Mellencamp, 68, popped the question in November 2018. Ryan, 57, was elated at the time, posting a hand-drawn illustration of the couple on Instagram and captioning it "ENGAGED!"

A month later, during an interview on the "Today" show, Mellencamp was asked what motivated him to propose.

"One can only imagine I'm probably not the easiest guy to get along with," Mellencamp replied. "So let's leave it at that."

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NEW YORK, NY - FEBRUARY 14: Meg Ryan and her boyfriend John Mellencamp are seen on February 14, 2011 in New York City. (Photo by Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)
TAORMINA, ITALY - JUNE 20: John Mellencamp and Meg Ryan attend Taormina Filmfest 2013 2013 at Teatro Antico on June 20, 2013 in Taormina, Italy. (Photo by Venturelli/Getty Images)
NEW YORK NY - NOVEMBER 03: Meg Ryan and John Mellencamp sighting on November 3, 2014 in New York City. (Photo by Josiah Kamau/BuzzFoto/FilmMagic)
LOS ANGELES, CA - JULY 26: Meg Ryan and John Mellencamp are seen on July 26, 2012 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)
NEW YORK, NY - SEPTEMBER 07: Meg Ryan and John Mellencamp are seen on September 7, 2012 in New York City. (Photo by Alo Ceballos/FilmMagic)
NEW YORK, NY - DECEMBER 25: John Mellencamp, Meg Ryan and Jack Quaid attend the New York Knicks Vs Philadelphia 76ers game at Madison Square Garden on December 25, 2017 in New York City. (Photo by James Devaney/Getty Images)
LOS ANGELES, CA - JULY 26: Meg Ryan and John Mellencamp are seen on July 26, 2012 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)
NEW YORK, NY - FEBRUARY 14: Meg Ryan and her boyfriend John Mellencamp are seen on February 14, 2011 in New York City. (Photo by Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)
NEW YORK - JANUARY 05: Singer John Mellencamp (L) and actress Meg Ryan enter the Whitney Museum on January 5, 2011 in New York City. (Photo by Ray Tamarra/Getty Images)
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Mellencamp's made similar remarks before, once telling Howard Stern that "women hate" him: "I think it's because I'm a child. I throw fits, I gripe, I complain. I'm moody. Every bad thing that a fella can be, that's me."

At the time, he and Ryan had broken up, and he added, "I loved Meg Ryan. She hates me to death."

As recently as mid-summer, the wedding was still on, although Ryan told InStyle that she wasn't in a rush to walk down the aisle: "Yes, I’m going to get married at some point," she said. "But for now this engagement thing is a state of grace."

Ryan and Mellencamp began dating in 2011 and split in 2014. They reconciled later that year, then broke up again in 2015 and started things up again in 2017.

"What’s great about now is that John and I are so free to have fun," Ryan told the New York Times in February 2018. "Maybe that freedom is about being a million years old. But I sometimes think relationships are for aliens. Who does it? Who can do it? I don’t know how any of us ever do."

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HOLLYWOOD, CA - APRIL 11: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal attend the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala And 30th Anniversary Screening Of 'When Harry Met Sally' at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Gregg DeGuire/FilmMagic)
HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - APRIL 11: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal arrive at the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala And 30th Anniversary Screening Of 'When Harry Met Sally' - Arrivals at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Joe Scarnici/Getty Images)
HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - APRIL 11: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal attend the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala and 30th Anniversary Screening of 'When Harry Met Sally' at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)
HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - APRIL 11: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal attend the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala and 30th Anniversary Screening of 'When Harry Met Sally' at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)
HOLLYWOOD, CA - APRIL 11: Rob Reiner, Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal attend the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala And 30th Anniversary Screening Of 'When Harry Met Sally' at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Gregg DeGuire/FilmMagic)
HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - APRIL 11: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal attend the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala and 30th Anniversary Screening of 'When Harry Met Sally' at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)
HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - APRIL 11: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal attend the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala and 30th Anniversary Screening of 'When Harry Met Sally' at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)
HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - APRIL 11: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal attend the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala and 30th Anniversary Screening of 'When Harry Met Sally' at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)
HOLLYWOOD, CA - APRIL 11: Rob Reiner, Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal attend the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala And 30th Anniversary Screening Of 'When Harry Met Sally' at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Gregg DeGuire/FilmMagic)
HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - APRIL 11: Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal attend the 2019 TCM Classic Film Festival Opening Night Gala and 30th Anniversary Screening of 'When Harry Met Sally' at TCL Chinese Theatre on April 11, 2019 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Rachel Luna/WireImage)
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