Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith have been married for more than two decades, and celebrating their wedding anniversary just isn’t something that’s important to them anymore.
“We don’t really celebrate that day, you know what I’m saying, anymore in that sense, because the context of our union is totally different,” Pinkett Smith said on a new episode of her Facebook Watch series, “Red Table Talk,” referring to the marriage as “more of a life partnership.”
The two were married on Dec. 31, 1997, but sometimes aren’t even in the same place for their anniversary, she said. Smith likes to be on an adventure for New Year’s Eve, while Pinkett Smith likes to be inside, she said, as her daughter, Willow, and mother, Adrienne Banfield-Jones, laughed.
“He now has the freedom to go and have an awesome adventure of some kind,” Pinkett Smith said.
Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith
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Cast member Will Smith and his wife Jada Pinkett Smith kiss at the premiere of "Focus" at the TCL Chinese theatre in Hollywood, California February 24, 2015. The movie opens in the U.S. on February 27. REUTERS/Mario Anzuoni (UNITED STATES - Tags: ENTERTAINMENT)
PASADENA, CA - FEBRUARY 05: Actor Will Smith and actress Jada Pinkett Smith attend the 47th NAACP Image Awards at Pasadena Civic Auditorium on February 5, 2016 in Pasadena, California. (Photo by Jason LaVeris/FilmMagic)
BEVERLY HILLS, CA - JANUARY 10: Actors Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith attend the 73rd Annual Golden Globe Awards held at the Beverly Hilton Hotel on January 10, 2016 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Jason Merritt/Getty Images)
PALM SPRINGS, CA - JANUARY 03: Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith attend Variety's Creative Impact Awards and 10 Directors To Watch Brunch at the Parker Palm Springs on January 3, 2016 in Palm Springs, California. (Photo by Jerod Harris/Getty Images,)
BEVERLY HILLS, CA - JANUARY 10: Actors Will Smith (L), Jada Pinkett Smith and Trey Smith (R) attend the 73rd Annual Golden Globe Awards held at the Beverly Hilton Hotel on January 10, 2016 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by John Shearer/Getty Images)
SANTA MONICA, CA - DECEMBER 10: Actress Jada Pinkett Smith (L) and actor Will Smith attend the 2nd Annual Diamond Ball hosted by Rihanna and The Clara Lionel Foundation at The Barker Hanger on December 10, 2015 in Santa Monica, California. (Photo by JB Lacroix/Getty Images)
WESTWOOD, CA - NOVEMBER 23: Actress Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith attend the screening of Columbia Pictures' 'Concussion' on November 23, 2015 in Westwood, California. (Photo by JB Lacroix/WireImage)
LAS VEGAS, NV - NOVEMBER 19: (EXCLUSIVE COVERAGE) Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith attend Sony Music Latin's Official Latin Grammy After Party at XS nightclub at Encore Las Vegas on November 19, 2015 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by John Parra/Getty Images for Sony Music Entertainment US Latin LLC)
LAS VEGAS, NV - NOVEMBER 19: Jada Pinkett and Will Smith pose in the press room during the 16th Annual Latin GRAMMY Awards at the MGM Grand Arena on November 19, 2015 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by Taylor Hill/Getty Images)
LAS VEGAS, NV - NOVEMBER 19: Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith pose backstage during the 16th Latin GRAMMY Awards on November 19, 2015 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by C Flanigan/Getty Images)
Actor Will Smith and his wife Jada Pinkett Smith pose for photos after arriving to the 86th Academy Awards in Hollywood, California March 2, 2014. REUTERS/Adrees Latif (UNITED STATES - Tags: ENTERTAINMENT) (OSCARS-ARRIVALS)
Will Smith and his wife Jada Pinkett Smith arrive on the red carpet for the gala presentation of the film "Free Angela and All Political Prisoners" at the 37th Toronto International Film Festival, September 9, 2012. REUTERS/Mark Blinch (CANADA - Tags: ENTERTAINMENT)
Actor Will Smith and his wife Jada Pinkett Smith attend the premiere of "The Karate Kid" at the Mann Village theatre in Los Angeles June 7, 2010. The movie opens in the U.S. on June 11. REUTERS/Mario Anzuoni (UNITED STATES - Tags: ENTERTAINMENT)
“We refer to ourselves as ‘life partners,’ where you get into that space where you realize you are literally with somebody for the rest of your life,” he said on an episode of Tidal’s “Rap Radar” podcast.
“There’s no deal breakers,” the actor added. “There’s nothing she could do ― ever ― nothing would break our relationship. She has my support until death and it feels so good to get to that space.”
That doesn’t mean there haven’t been bumps along the way in their relationship. For starters, Pinkett Smith didn’t want to get married in the first place, though she said her mom pressured her to do so.
“It was almost as if [my mom] was like, ‘You have to get married.’ I was under so much pressure, you know, being a young actress,” Pinkett Smith said on a “Red Table Talk” episode in October. “Being young and pregnant … I just didn’t know what to do. I just knew I never wanted to be married.”
She added that she was “so upset that I had to have a wedding.”
“I was so pissed,” she said. “I went crying down the freaking aisle, I cried the whole way down the aisle!”