Tamera Mowry makes emotional return to ‘The Real’ after niece’s death

Tamera Mowry broke down during her first appearance on The Real since she and husband Adam Housley’s niece Alaina was shot and killed at the Borderline Bar & Grill in Thousand Oaks, California.

Mowry, 40, began to tear up on the Monday, November 26, episode of the talk show after she was reunited with cohosts Jeannie Mai, Loni Love and Adrienne Bailon.

“I’m OK. … I’m sorry,” the visibly emotional Sister, Sister alum said. “Our family’s been through a lot, but the interesting thing about grief is that you’ve gotta find the balance of moving forward and grieving at the same time. It’s just been a little over two weeks.”

After reporting her missing via social media on November 8, Mowry and Adam, 46, confirmed Alaina’s death in a statement to Us Weekly later that day. “Our hearts are broken. We just learned that our niece Alaina was one of the victims of last night’s shooting at Borderline bar in Thousand Oaks,” the couple said. “Alaina was an incredible young woman with so much life ahead of her and we are devastated that her life was cut short in this manner. We thank everyone for your prayers and ask for privacy at this time.”

The 18-year-old student was laid to rest on November 15.

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LOS ANGELES, CA - JUNE 12: Tamera Mowry-Housley and her family arrive to the Los Angeles premiere of Universal Pictures and Amblin Entertainment's 'Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom' held at Walt Disney Concert Hall on June 12, 2018 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Michael Tran/FilmMagic)
AUSTIN, TEXAS - APRIL 12: Tamera Mowry (L) and Adam Housley attend the Mack, Jack & McConaughey charity gala at ACL Live on April 12, 2018 in Austin, Texas. (Photo by Gary Miller/Getty Images)
BEVERLY HILLS, CA - JANUARY 07: Actor Tamera Mowry-Housley and Adam Housley attend 19th Annual Post-Golden Globes Party hosted by Warner Bros. Pictures and InStyle at The Beverly Hilton Hotel on January 7, 2018 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Lester Cohen/WireImage)
WESTWOOD, CA - SEPTEMBER 16: (L-R) Adam Housley, Ariah Talea Housley, Aden John Tanner Housley, and Tamera Mowry at the premiere of Warner Bros. Pictures' 'The LEGO Ninjago Movie' at Regency Village Theatre on September 16, 2017 in Westwood, California. (Photo by David Livingston/Getty Images)
LOS ANGELES, CA - MAY 01: Actress Tamera Mowry-Housley (L) and her Husband Adam Housley (R) attend the 2016 Daytime Emmy Awards at The Westin Bonaventure Hotel on May 1, 2016 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Paul Archuleta/FilmMagic)
CULVER CITY, CA - APRIL 24: (L-R) Adam Housley, Aden John Tanner Housley, Tamera Mowry and Ariah Talea Housley attend Safe Kids Day at Smashbox Studios on April 24, 2016 in Culver City, California. (Photo by Jason LaVeris/FilmMagic)
CULVER CITY, CA - APRIL 24: Journalist Adam Housley (C) and Tamera Mowry-Housley (R) attend Safe Kids Day 2016 presented by Nationwide at Smashbox Studios on April 24, 2016 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Tommaso Boddi/Getty Images for Safe Kids Worldwide)
LOS ANGELES, CA - APRIL 17: Adam Housley, Aden John Tanner Housley, Tamera Mowry and Ariah Talea Housley arrive at the 7th Annual Milk + Bookies' Story Time celebration held at California Market Center on April 17, 2016 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Michael Tran/FilmMagic)
LAKE BUENA VISTA, FL - MARCH 04: In this handout photo provided by Disney Parks, 'The Real' talk show co-host Tamera Mowry-Housley, daughter Ariah, 8 months, son Aden, age 3, and husband Adam meet Princess Tiana on March 4, 2016, at Epcot theme park in Lake Buena Vista, Fla. Mowry-Housley enjoyed attractions at Walt Disney World with her family during a break from speaking at Disney Dreamers Academy with Steve Harvey and Essence Magazine. The ninth annual event, taking place through March 6, is a career-inspiration program for distinguished high school students across the U.S. (Photo by Kent Phillips/Disney Parks via Getty Images)
HOLLYWOOD, CA - FEBRUARY 20: (L-R) Tamera Mowry-Housley and Adam Housley attend the Make-Up Artists and Hair Stylists Guild Awards at Paramount Studios on February 20, 2016 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Tibrina Hobson/Getty Images)
HOLLYWOOD, CA - NOVEMBER 17: Tamera Mowry-Housley, den John Tanner Housley and Adam Housley arrive at the premiere of Disney-Pixar's 'The Good Dinosaur' on November 17, 2015 in Hollywood, California.
SANTA MONICA, CA - APRIL 4: (EXCLUSIVE COVERAGE) (L-R) Adam Housley, Tamera Mowry-Housley, Tia Mowry and Cory Hardrict pose with sons Aden Housley and Cree Hardrict at Tamera Mowry-Housley's baby shower at Casa Del Mar on April 4, 2015 in Santa Monica, California. (Photo by Chelsea Lauren/WireImage)
SANTA MONICA, CA - APRIL 4: (EXCLUSIVE COVERAGE) Tamera Mowry-Housley (L) and Adam Housley attend Tamera Mowry-Housley's baby shower at Casa Del Mar on April 4, 2015 in Santa Monica, California. (Photo by Chelsea Lauren/WireImage)
BEVERLY HILLS, CA - JANUARY 11: Actress Tamera Mowry (L) and her Husband Adam Housley (R) attend NBC-Universal's after party for the 72nd annual Golden Globes Awards at The Beverly Hilton Hotel on January 11, 2015 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Paul Archuleta/FilmMagic)
HOLLYWOOD, CA - DECEMBER 04: Actress Tamera Mowry and journalist Adam Housley attend The Actor's Fund 2014 The Looking Ahead Awards held at the Taglyan Cultural Complex on December 4, 2014 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Tommaso Boddi/WireImage)
Actress Tamera Mowry and television personality Adam Housley arrive at the Alliance For Children's Rights 18th Annual Dinner Gala at The Beverly Hilton hotel on March 10, 2011 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Mathew Imaging/WireImage)
LOS ANGELES, CA - MARCH 04: Actress Tamera Mowry and reporter Adam Housley arrive at the 42nd NAACP Image Awards held at The Shrine Auditorium on March 4, 2011 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Frazer Harrison/Getty Images for NAACP Image Awards)
LOS ANGELES, CA - FEBRUARY 17: Actress Tamera Mowry-Housley and Adam Housley at the 43rd NAACP Image Awards held at The Shrine Auditorium on February 17, 2012 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images for NAACP Image Awards)
LOS ANGELES, CA - JUNE 02: Actress Tamera Mowry-Housley (L) and TV personality Adam Housley attends the Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation's 24th Annual 'A Time For Heroes' at Century Park on June 2, 2013 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Michael Buckner/Getty Images for EGPAF)
LOS ANGELES, CA - JUNE 02: Actress Tamera Mowry-Housley, son Aden Housley and husband Adam Housley arrive at the Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation's 24th Annual 'A Time For Heroes' at Century Park on June 2, 2013 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Gregg DeGuire/WireImage)
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“She would want me to be here. And she would want me … sweet Alaina … to move forward,” Mowry continued on Monday. “I don’t like to say move on, because I don’t think I’ll ever move on with the fact that she’s not here with me or with our family.”

The actress has paid tribute to Alaina multiple times on social media since her death. Mowry also thanked her Real cohosts for their support in a sweet Instagram post on Thanksgiving.

“Can’t wait to get my hugs from these women Monday. I love you ladies,” she captioned a photo of the four women on Thursday, November 22. “Your prayers, support, comfort and love wrapped me with warmth and strength these past two weeks.”

She concluded with a quote from the late Princess Diana: “If you find someone you love in your life, then hang on to that love.”

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Victims of the Borderline Bar & Grill shooting in Thousand Oaks, California
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Friends remembered Kristina Kaylee Morisette as a bubbly, happy person. "I saw Kristina walking around right before it happened … It still seems like a dream. I just can't believe it," said a friend of her's.

(Photo: Facebook)

Alaina Housley, an 18-year-old freshman at Pepperdine University was killed. Alaina's aunt and actress Tamera Mowry released a statement saying her niece was one of the victims. Mowry is married to former Fox News national correspondent Adam Housley who said, "you just don’t think that — same stupid quote — you just don’t think it’s going to happen to you."

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Cody Coffman's father, Jason Coffman, identified his 22-year-old son as one of the victims killed in the shooting at Borderline Bar and Grill in Thousand Oaks, California.

"Cody was the big brother that my kids need," Jason Coffman said during a Thursday press conference. "I have a daughter coming on the 29th of this month, and [Cody] was so excited to have his first sister," he said. "And now she'll never know him."

(FREDERIC J. BROWN/AFP/Getty Images)

California Lutheran University confirmed that recent graduate, Justin Meek, was killed in the shooting. The 23-year-old was reportedly working as a bouncer at the bar.

(Photo: Facebook/Justin Meek)

Ventura County Sheriff's Sgt. Ron Helus, who was killed Wednesday, Nov. 7, 2018, in a deadly shooting at a country music bar in Thousand Oaks, Calif.

(Ventura County Sheriff's Department via AP)

Telemachus Orfanos, 27, was a U.S. Navy veteran and his friends called him "Tel," according to the Associated Press. His mother spoke with ABC7 and said, "I hope to God no one sends me anymore prayers. I want gun control. No more guns!"

(Photo: Facebook)

Noel Sparks was identified as one of the victims of the shooting by United Methodist Church Westlake Village on Facebook.

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#BreakingNews: The family of Sean Adler confirms he is among the victims of the #BorderlineBarShooting; Adler is su… https://t.co/pG0955zHQ2

Dan Manrique was a 33-year-old former Marine Corps radio operator and head of the Ventura County chapter of veterans non-profit Team Red, White & Blue.

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Marky Meza Jr., 20, was working as a busboy at Borderline Bar & Grill when he was killed.

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Jake Dunham, 21, was at Borderline on Wednesday night with his friend, Blake Dingman. Both were killed in the attack.

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Blake Dingman, 21, was reportedly a well-known local athlete who played high school baseball at Hillcrest Christian School in Thousand Oaks.

"We were really proud of him," his aunt, Janet Dingman, told PE.com in a phone interview. “He was a really, fun, energetic and loving nephew.”

(Photo: Instagram)

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