Pamela Anderson opens up about her sex life, says she's never had a 'positive' threesome

Pamela Anderson is getting candid about her sexual experiences.

The 51-year-old actress recently answered Instagram direct messages sent to Dazed magazine after the publication invited her to be a guest sex and relationships editor. One reader asked Anderson for her opinion on threesomes and group sex.

"I have never had a threesome or group sex in a positive way," the Baywatch star replies. "But to each their own. All my lovers were too jealous. Except for maybe one that fantasized about me being with a woman and watching us."

"It sounds tempting sometimes," she continues. "But I’m too romantic. I don’t enjoy sex without love and commitment. It’s not mechanical or to show off. It’s about intimacy and sharing secrets."

Anderson later gave her opinion on sex toys when a reader asked, "Someone in the bedroom says, ‘do something kinky’. What do you do?"

She replies, "It’s up to them to be more specific. Sex toys can be fun."

Anderson also addresses being an iconic sex symbol and how it's affects her real-life relationships.

"I don’t think about my image or my past," she shares when someone inquires about false stereotypes. "When men try to put me on a pedestal, it’s the worst. It’s isolating and lonely to be so protected. It’s also someone that will cheat eventually. Thinking you are too perfect makes men insecure and have to seek attention from others. I just want to walk hand in hand through the streets and kiss and laugh and love. But some men have a fear of treating me as a normal girl. This is what I want more than anything."

Anderson is currently happily dating 32-year-old French soccer player Adil Rami. Earlier this month, a source told ET that although the couple is not currently engaged, "things are definitely headed in that direction.”

“Their love is one that is very private, precious and personal," the source said. "Pamela has never been so private about a relationship before, it’s different than all the others. She’s learned that being public from the get-go doesn’t always work out in the long run.”

ET spoke to Anderson last month, and she talked further about her relationship with Rami. 

"I’m very happy. I’m very happy and I love France," she said.  "My mom is so funny because every time she sees me and ... [I] want to complain about certain things she goes, 'Oh stop! You’re happy! Look at your face. Deal with it!' Just, you know, there’s more good than bad. There’s more good than bad!'"

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Saint-Tropez, FRANCE: Canadian actress Pamela Anderson (R) shares a drink with her husband, US musician Kid Rock (C), the day of their wedding, on Pampelone's beach in Saint-Tropez, Southern France, 29 July 2006. Anderson, 39, married Rock, 35, aboard a yacht. AFP PHOTO ERIC ESTRADE (Photo credit should read ERIC ESTRADE/AFP/Getty Images)
Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock at Los Angeles Dodger game against the Cincinnati Reds at Dodger Stadium in Los Angeles, Calif. on Monday, August 28, 2006. (Photo by Kirby Lee/WireImage)
Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock during VH1 Big in 2003 - Backstage and Audience at Universal Amphitheater in Universal City, California, United States. (Photo by Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic)
Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock during STUFF Magazine and Blender Host Kid Rock's After - Party For The 2003 American Music Awards- Red Carpet/Inside at Forbidden City in Hollywood, California, United States. (Photo by Jean-Paul Aussenard/WireImage)
Kid Rock and Pamela Anderson during 31st Annual American Music Awards - Arrivals at Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles, California, United States. (Photo by SGranitz/WireImage)
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Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock during 2003 CMT Flameworthy Awards - Arrivals at The Gaylord Center in Nashville, Tennessee, United States. (Photo by Frank Mullen/WireImage)
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Kid Rock and Pamela Anderson during VH1 Big in 2002 Awards - Arrivals at Grand Olympic Auditorium in Los Angeles, CA, United States. (Photo by Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic)
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Pamela Anderson (dress by Roberto Cavalli) and Kid Rock (American flag belt buckle by Chrome Hearts) arrive at the 44th annual Grammy Awards. (Photo by Frank Trapper/Corbis via Getty Images)
Kid Rock and Pamela Anderson pose together at the 12th Annual Clive Davis Pre-Grammy party at the Beverly Hills Hotel in Los Angeles, CA on Tuesday, February 26, 2002. Photo credit: Frank Micelotta/ImageDirect
Kid Rock and Pamela Anderson arrive at the 29th Annual American Music Awards at the Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles Wednesdsay, January 9, 2002. Photo by Frank Micelotta/ABC/ImageDirect
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(NO TABLOIDS) Kid Rock & Pamela Anderson during 'Spankin New Music Week' on MTV's 'TRL' - November 9, 2001 at the MTV's Time Square Studio in New York, New York. (Photo by Kevin Mazur/WireImage)
NEW YORK - SEPTEMBER 6: American singer Kid Rock and actress Pamela Anderson arrive at the 2001 MTV Video Music Awards held at the Metropolitan Opera House at Lincoln Center on September 6, 2001 in New York City. (Photo by Dave Hogan/Getty Images)
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