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Pauly D, Jessica White, Somaya Reece, Calum Best & Josh Murray On "Famously Single"By: Donna Freydkin

He's gone from "gym, tan, laundry" on the "Jersey Shore" to "gym, tan, love" on "Famously Single."

Yes, we're talking about DJ Pauly D, real name Paul DelVecchio, who appeared on the E! romance Rx series and emerged dating singer Aubrey O'Day. Now, says Pauly D, he's famously taken.

"I didn't know what I was getting myself into to," says Pauly D. "Never did I expect to find love on the show. "I didn't expect it to change my life the way it did. I came out of it with a girlfriend."

He lived in a house with other bold-faced folks and leaned on relationship coaches to guide him through his budding romance. "The best dating advice is to communicate. I never knew what I meant. But it means telling the other person exactly how you feel as much as you can. That's how you resolve your problems," he says.

House Of CB Flagship Store Launch - ArrivalsHis DJ gigs give him access to women a-plenty, he says, but he was looking for something more meaningful. That meant letting down his guard.

Relationships aside, Pauly has released a new single, "Did You Know," with Tdot illdude, and is on tour, closing out in Atlantic City on Sept. 24. O'Day will be with him at some of his gigs, but not all. "It's summer and it's my favorite time to DJ. I do all the pool parties all over the world. I'm looking forward to the summer gigs," he says.

House Of CB Flagship Store Launch - ArrivalsWhat makes O'Day different from the other ladies? "I'm constantly interested in her. I want to learn more about her. I enjoy about her company. I enjoy my time with her. The other girls, I didn't want that with," he says.

Another thing he took away from "Famously Single" was to recognize and treasure a good person when you meet her (or him). "Going into a relationship, you need to give it your all. I'm able to do that. I was doing all the wrong things before," he says.

Plus, he and O'Day broke the ice fairly quickly. "Normally, you don't live with them right away and we lived together right away. You get that other stuff out of the way. We saw how each other lived right away. It makes it easier. It worked. I can't knock it," says Pauly D.

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LOS ANGELES, CA - AUGUST 28: Vinny Guadagnino, Ronnie Ortiz-Magro and Paul DelVecchio of the Jersey Shore pose at the 2011 MTV Video Music Awards Press Room at Nokia Theatre L.A. Live on August 28, 2011 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Jon Kopaloff/FilmMagic)
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LOS ANGELES, CA - AUGUST 28: Vinny Guadagnino and Paul DelVecchio of the Jersey Shore pose at the 2011 MTV Video Music Awards Press Room at Nokia Theatre L.A. Live on August 28, 2011 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Jon Kopaloff/FilmMagic)
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ORLANDO, FL - OCTOBER 22: Paul 'Pauly D' DelVecchio (left), from the MTV series 'Jersey Shore,' takes a ride aboard the Big Thunder Mountain Railroad roller coaster in the Magic Kingdom on October 22, 2010 in Lake Buena Vista, Florida. Delvecchio, riding with Celebration (Fla.) High School senior Bryan Lopez (front right) and a host of central Florida high school seniors behind him, was at the theme park to announce his involvement as one of the featured performers for 'Disney Grad Nite 2011,' a private, after-hours party at the Magic Kingdom in April and May 2011 for high school seniors from across the country. Delvecchio will serve as the party's featured DJ, and headline the graduation party alongside UK-born R&B singer Taio Cruz and pop duo '3OH!3.' (Photo by Diana Zalucky/Disney via Getty Images)
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MIAMI BEACH, FL - MAY 21: Ronnie Ortiz-Magro and Sammi 'Sweetheart' Giancola are seen filming 'Jersey Shore' during the last day of filming in Miami Beach on May 21, 2010 in Miami Beach, Florida. (Photo by Troy Rizzo/Getty Images)
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MIAMI BEACH, FL - APRIL 05: Paul 'Pauly D' DelVecchio and Ronnie Ortiz-Magro are seen in South Beach as filming begins for 'Jersey Shore' on April 5, 2010 in Miami Beach, Florida. (Photo by Troy Rizzo/Getty Images)
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