The 35-year-old singer told Women's Health that despite their long engagement, the couple are still in the beginning stages of talking about their wedding. "We discuss it when we're snuggling in bed," she said. "But it's a casual conversation."
Obviously, Aguilera is in a good place in her life -- but explains that balancing her needs with being a mother of two can be challenging. "Mothers are constantly expected to be the nurturers, the givers, the providers of a comfortable home," she explained. "We're expected to be pregnant, have the kids, breastfeed once we have the babies. And we're expected to look amazing after baby, right? Keep our husbands and boyfriends interested -- because we're supposed to get back to sexy and keep things exciting in the bedroom. There's such a long list. Having children is the ultimate joy, and I love my kids, but women have to find time to nurture themselves."
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The Voice coach also called women out on being too hard on themselves. "If you're not feeling confident on a certain day, you have to let that go, and own, 'Yeah, I'm not feeling confident today' and you move on and try to enjoy the best you can," she said. "I'm not into deprivation; I'm not into suffering into getting a great body or the body that you want. I'm into enjoying life, being conscious and aware, but also breathing into yourself and owning what you got."
See Aguilera through the years:
Christina Aguilera through the years
Christina Aguilera is in no hurry to get married: We snuggle, have 'casual conversations' about it
THE VOICE -- 'Live Semis' Episode 817B -- Pictured: Christina Aguilera -- (Photo by: Trae Patton/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty Images)
Singer Christina Aguilera performs her hit song "Genie In A Bottle" accompanied by dancers at the 1999 Teen Choice Awards taping August 1 in Santa Monica. The award show, celebrating the hottest teen icons in film, television, music, sports and fashion was sponsored by Seventeen magazine and will be broadcast on the FOX television network in the United States on August 12.
Singers Britney Spears (L) and Christina Aguilera appear on stage at the MTV Video Music Awards in New York on September 7, 2000. Spears and Aguilera were both nominated for awards in the show.
Singer Christina Aguilera, pictured June 2, 2001 at the 2001 MTV Movie
Awards in Los Angeles, was nominated for two Latin Grammy awards,
including Best Record of the Year for "Pero Me Acuerdo De Ti" ("But I
remember you"), the Latin Recording Academy announced July 17 at a
press conference in Miami. The awards will be presented September 11
during a ceremony at the American Airlines Arena in Miami.
Singer Christina Aguilera poses as she arrives at the sixth annual
"Teen People" 25 Hottest Stars under 25 party in Hollywood May 5, 2003.
Aguilera was named to the list which features the top young stars in
film, music and television. REUTERS/Fred Prouser
Singer Christina Aguilera arrives at the 46th annual Grammy Awards show in Los Angeles, February 8, 2004. REUTERS/Fred Prouser FG/SV
Singer Christina Aguilera performs 'When You Wish Upon A Star' on stage at Disneyland's 50th anniversary celebration. Singer Christina Aguilera performs the Disney song 'When You Wish Upon A Star' at Disneyland's 50th anniversary celebration ceremony, at the Disneyland theme park in Anaheim, California May 5, 2005. Walt Disney, founder of the Walt Disney Company and visionary behind the creation of Disneyland, opened the park on July 17, 1955. REUTERS/Fred Prouser
Singer Christina Aguilera performs at the 2006 MTV Movie Awards taping at Sony Pictures Studios in Culver City, California June 3, 2006.
Christina Aguilera performs on ABC's Good Morning America in New York's Bryant Park August 18, 2006. REUTERS/Brendan McDermid (UNITED STATES)
Christina Aguilera holds her Grammy after winning Best Female Pop Vocal Performance for "Ain't No Other Man" at the 49th Annual Grammy Awards in Los Angeles February 11, 2007. REUTERS/Mike Blake (UNITED STATES)
Singer Christina Aguilera is interviewed as she arrives at the 'Africa Rising' Festival at the Royal Albert Hall, in London October 14, 2008. REUTERS/Alessia Pierdomenico (BRITAIN)
Singer Christina Aguilera arrives at the 2010 MTV Movie Awards in Los Angeles June 6, 2010. REUTERS/Mario Anzuoni (UNITED STATES - Tags: ENTERTAINMENT)
Cast member Christina Aguilera waves at the premiere of "Burlesque" at the Grauman's Chinese theatre in Hollywood, California November 15, 2010. The movie opens in the U.S. on November 24. REUTERS/Mario Anzuoni(UNITED STATES - Tags: ENTERTAINMENT)
One thing's for sure, Aguilera loves being a mom to son Max and daughter Summer Rain. "Being a mom the second-time around to now a daughter -- I have a 7-year-old son -- is amazing. They both are the joy of my life," she gushed to the magazine. "I swear if I hadn't called her Summer I would've called her Joy because she just lights up a room and she illuminates brightness and happiness."
When ET chatted with the "Beautiful" singer, she also couldn't help but dote on her little one. "She's precious. She's so adorable, she's really, really good and just is bright, big blue, eyes," Aguilera said. "It's like looking into her soul."