The 33 Best Vibrators for Women, According to Sexperts and Our Top-Secret, Anonymous Poll
PureWow Editors select every item that appears on this page,, and the company may earn compensation through affiliate links within the story You can learn more about that process here. Yahoo Inc. may earn commission or revenue on some items through the links below.
Read the original article on Purewow.
Selecting the best vibrators for women is highly subjective—as are all sex toys—but we believe we've nailed it. How'd we go about finding the best of the current selection? We obviously couldn’t go to the store and try them all out. And while we’re all for being sex-positive, exploring sexual meditation and even sex magick, it can be uncomfortable to research or ask around for the best options. So we created an anonymous poll to ask women all about their favorite vibrators, and consulted a sex toy maker for extra intel.
Below, you'll find the lowdown on what's tops in the vibrator marketplace, and how to find what's going to work best for you and your partner. And, a note: While researching this story, we found out that all the toys are delivered in nondescript packaging, so you'll never need to worry about "SEX TOYS INTERNATIONAL" or some such being stamped on the outside of your box. (Your silicone somethings are nobody's business but your own.)
Want to know which buzzy products are *really* worth buying? Sign up for our shopping newsletter to uncover our favorite finds.
The Top 10 Vibrators for Women at a Glance
How We Chose the Best Vibrators for Women
Beyond looking at the top-reviewed brands on the market, we conducted the aforementioned anonymous poll to ask women about their favorite vibrators, why they like them and whether they’d recommend them to others. Then we followed up with a Q & A with a successful California-based sex toys maker to learn about what to features look for and some tips for using one, which you'll find below.
Meet the Expert
Chad Braverman is COO and CCO at Doc Johnson, a California-based company that manufactures and markets sex toys. His father started the business in in 1976 after buying a small rubber company that made fishing lures, Halloween special effects kits and sex toys. Today, Braverman innovates toys ranging from dildos and vibrators to molded replicas of OnlyFans stars.
What Should You Look for When Choosing a Vibrator?
“Choosing one really comes down to personal preference,” Braverman says. “This is not a one-size-fits-all situation. One thing to look for every time though, no matter how many speeds or functions a vibrator has, shoppers should always consider the material. Non-porous options like silicone should always be prioritized, because no lubes, fluids or dust can sink into the material.”
General categories of vibrators include bullet, rabbit, clitoral, massage wands, G spot, suction and wearable. Braverman says his company’s most popular products are the bullet, rabbit, and clitoral suction models.
28 of the Best Sex Toys for Women (No Matter What You’re Into)
1. Magic Wand Cordless Vibrator
The OG Magic Wand Massager has earned a top spot on many peoples list for delivering incredible, thumping stimulations that almost guarantees multiple O's in one session. We like this updated model that's rechargeable via the included plug for 180 minutes of runtime, as opposed to the originals bulky cord. It features four high speeds and patterns as well as a flexible neck, so you can hit just the right angles. As one reviewer put it, "This powerful product has brought me some of the best O's I have ever had."
2. Womanizer Starlet
Womanizer has made a name for itself for providing some titillating stimulation, both external and internal, thanks to the brand's suction technology. This pocket-sized version is not to be underestimated, providing soft-yet-spontaneous suction on your clit combined with four different levels of intense vibrations that may very well have you shaking. It's also small enough to be involved in partner play and might have you both shocked. One reviewer says: "At first I thought it would be a nice little warm up…no way! Small package big little deaths. And that last setting is intense."
3. We-Vibe Melt
This clitoral suction stimulator will provide some major wows with 12 intensity levels to tingle ever nerve for almost immediate orgasms—or as one user puts it "it's like having the very best chocolate ever." The sleek, silicone design can be used with water or slipped between two partners to really crank up the heat. Better yet, this We-Vibe vibrator can also be controlled via Bluetooth app from anywhere, so your partner can get in on the fun whether you're in an LDR or just in the other room.
4. Allovü Rose Vibrator
This silicone rose is all over TikTok, with happy users brandishing their little fake flower friends. While it looks like an artificial rose that you might find in the aisles of Michael’s, after you charge this baby for two and a half hours and use its puffing tech on your nipples and/or clitoris, anyone named Michael will be the last thing on your mind.
“I started Prozac and started having difficulty climaxing,” says one reviewer. “I bought this toy and left my body. I'm talking legs shaking, sweat dripping, soak the sheets orgasms. My husband now calls this his ‘associate.’ I tell everyone about this toy now…it’s rechargeable, waterproof and has different settings.” The noise of this mini small vibrator is less than 50 decibels, so you can enjoy this discreetly.
5. The Firefighter
This little fire-shaped gadget is surprisingly both powerful and pleasurable. Made of 100 percent phthalate-free silicone that's completely waterproof, it offers four speeds and two pulsations modes. The Firefighter from Smile Makers is the go-to of one satisfied respondent: "I love the shape of this guy for some self-care time by myself or with my husband for a couple extra Os. If you're like me and prefer a steady pace, you won't need the extra modes anyway."
6. Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 2
The Satisfyer Pro 2 was by far the most loved in our poll, and here's why: According to the brand, it has “tingling negative pressure, paired with exciting pulsations, that stimulates the clitoris without contact in a previously unimagined way.” A poll respondent agreed: “It’s just such a different sensation,” thanks to its patented Air-Pulse Technology. Did we mention it’s super quiet and has 11 different intensity settings?
7. Lelo Sona
Fitting perfectly in your palm, the Lelo Sona will provide some intense stimulation, making your personal bath time a bit more interesting. It sends sonic waves deep into your clit (rather than aggressive vibrations) to hit spots you never even knew existed. The buildup is long and strong, with the potential to create some of the strongest O's that with linger for a while. The small size is easy to travel with, and the silicone is easy to clean and feels soft against you. Warning: With eight strong modes, it might be just a little too powerful for newbies.
8. Desire Luxury Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator
This rabbit vibrator is a great bet if you're looking for an upgrade, as it provides both internal (hitting your G-spot) and external (two bunny ears on your clit) stimulation in one go. With 12 speeds of intensity and eight vibration modes, you're sure to stay occupied for multiple Os. "This one is a go-to for ‘me time’ for the clitoral and penetrative pleasure," says our reviewer. "I like that I can use this one in the shower, too, because it's completely waterproof."
9. Doc Johnson Tryst V2
Multi-functional, this vibrator can be used solo or with a partner and in different positions and configurations…it’s the Choose Your Own Adventure of sex toys. The flexible silicone arms can be bent into position as a c-ring or wrapped around one another to make a shaft for internal use. There are three motors, one in each arm and one in the central body, and the middle section can be used as a clitoral or vulvar stimulator. It’s waterproof and has a remote control, so you won’t be having to manipulate the device directly on the body—great for ease of use.
10. Smile Makers The Ballerina
If you prefer the external stimulation of your vibrator, the Ballerina may be your new go-to. It covers your whole vulva, and it's whisper-quiet and made to vibrate (in six pulsing patterns), which really disarmingly relaxes, then sends you. So, if you’re all about that broad touch stimulation, get ready for orgasms of the back-arching, toe-curling kind."This is a refreshing change-up from phallic-shaped, penetrative vibrators," says one fan. "I've been known to use this topically on my neck and shoulders, with a little CBD balm, when I'm tense."
11. Lelo Tor 2
This C-ring is great for couples—it's made to slip over the penis to heighten pleasure for male wearers—so we were surprised when a female user told us she enjoys solo play with the six vibrating functions and soft silicone texture. The rigid square bullet vibrator top "feels great for external stimulation, whether it's cupped in my hand or rubbing between my boyfriend and me when he's wearing it." Bonus: The handsome matte green silicone material gives it aesthetic appeal.
12. We-Vibe Jive
This vibrator has an external, flexible arm that rests outside the body and an internal vibrator that the wearer inserts and wears under her panties and clothes. "This is so fun for solo play, since it has ten vibration modes and fits inside you, where it totally finds your G-spot, and also outside, resting against your clitoris," says one reviewer. The waterproof device is controllable by the app, which means you can decide on the speed at home or cede control to a partner long-distance.
13. Plusone Personal Massager
One woman told us she likes this massager for the shape and the power, and after reading more about it, we can understand why. The unique design is described as “compact, yet powerful,” and the flexible head contours to your body and the bulbous neck can be used as a massager on other pain points. With ten different settings and a battery that lasts up to four hours, what more could you ask for?
14. Shibari Mini Halo
This baby has range—as in 20 different speeds and eight different vibration patterns. Users praise it for its battery life, affordable price point and super-quiet motor. It also comes it eight cute colors and feels ergonomic in your hands during particularly long sessions. And with more than 11,600 5-star reviews on Amazon, it’s pretty clear this wand massager is well loved.
15. Maude Vibe
This small, compact vibrator is ideal for those not wanting to showcase the fact they have a vibrator. “It’s discreet—not hot pink—and could almost be mistaken for a piece of art. It has three speeds, comes with a little carrying case and can definitely be taken for travel,” said one woman we polled. It’s one of the most affordable toys on our list and does have fewer speeds and features, but make sure you’re diligent about charging it, one fan warns.
16. Lelo Soraya 2 Rabbit
“I don’t love the price, but this thing is un-f*cking-believable,” one woman told us. At $160 on sale, this one is pretty pricey—but according to its fans, it’s worth every penny. The dual-action internal and external massager features an angled smaller arm that hit just the spots on your clit. It has 12 different settings (from a teasing murmur to a satisfying pulse) and a whisper-quiet motor.
17. Smile Makers The Billionaire
“It’s compact, cute and quiet,” one woman wrote about this lavender-hued wand. “It’s pretty soft and light, and I like that it has six settings to choose from and two pulsation modes.” She also likes the fact that it’s sold at places you might not typically expect to find a vibrator, like Sephora and Anthropologie, and hopes that will encourage people who would ordinarily feel too nervous to buy one. We couldn’t agree more. It's not loaded with features but should be enough to give you an orgasm without feeling overwhelmed by a contraption.
18. Diosa by Bellesa
Bellesa describes this best-seller as “a favorite of beginners and experts alike,” which is something we can definitely get behind. It offers dual stimulation and seven different vibration settings, and it’s 100 percent waterproof, if that’s your thing. One anonymous fan told us, “I’d absolutely recommend this vibe to other women. It’s not too expensive, easy to keep clean and easy to charge up.”
19. Je Joue Mimi
Designed by London-based luxury sex toy company Je Joue, the Mimi offers five different speeds and six different patterns of vibration, so you’re bound to find the right fit. “It’s a great size for clitoral stimulation: It’s easy to hold and lies nicely,” an anonymous fan shared. “It’s also great for partnered play as it is pretty small and easy to incorporate.”
20. VIM Vibrating Wand
This recent introduction from German-based Fun Factory iterates the classic wand vibrator to make the style quieter, lighter and overall better for sensitive clitorises. “I'm not usually a wand person; the old-school ones are like jet engines to me and to use one, I'd have to put a thick comforter in between the toy and my body,” writes one reviewer. “Not with this one. It still has a ton of power, which is great for my less-sensitive partner, but it goes down low enough for me and stays super rumbly.”
Another innovation is the spring-loaded head, which bends as you apply pressure and allows you to angle the movement with less arm and wrist strain. And along with the five speeds, there are three auto-programs, a deep orgasm, a quick intense orgasm and an edging program (that last is the one that builds and ebbs intensity repeatedly until climax).
21. Doc Johnson Lucid Dream 14
This waterproof plastic G-spot vibrator comes in three candy colors (pink, yellow and purple), and is not only well-priced but offers a body-safe alternative to silicone-skin vibrators. This vibrator is made of TPE, that’s thermoplastic elastomer, a molded plastic that is safe to use with silicone-based lubricants. The motor in the tip of the device delivers a solid rumbling to the G-spot when inserted, or to the clitoris when used as an external massager. And the two AA batteries that power it mean that even in a worst case scenario—that it runs out of power in the middle of use—it’s easy to just pop two new batteries in and continue.
22. Fun Factory Ocean Rabbit Vibrator
A versatile, beginner-friendly design that’s too pretty to hide in a drawer is what sets this mini vibe apart from the pack. Its motor ratchets from a soft hum to a powerful buzz, and the AAA batteries mean you’ll never need to wait for it to re-charge. You can insert the long wave, meanwhile the short wavelet can massage you externally, front or back. “It is totally great for such a small, battery operated toy!” writes one user. “It is sooo quiet!”
23. Unbound Bender
Suitable for G-spot, clitoral or overall external stimulation, this vibrator is a great way to hit exactly that spot (since everyone’s body is different). Safe for insertion and silky-soft and strong for external use, the only limit to what the Unbound Bender can to is the limit of your imagination.
24. Ultraplush Self-Heating G-Spot Vibrator
We appreciate the hustle this little guy shows—not only does he have a swollen tip to let users find the exact G-spot they’re after, he heats up! The concept is that, by warming to slightly above body temperature, this device encourages blood flow and muscle relaxation, both of which help the good times roll. It comes with its own travel pouch and has a travel lock so you’re guaranteed no suspicious humming emanates from your carry-on.
25. Zalo Kyro Wand Massager
This is a high-powered vibrator in a lightweight body (that has glam styling to boot). Part of Zalo’s Legend collection of vibrators that come in rich jewel tones with gold filagree styling reminiscent of the Pharaoh, this wand vibrator has a flexible neck, which heightens the six speeds and five vibration modes. The largish-round head can be used for external stimulation per most wands, but with this number you can add a bit of water-based lube (remember, silicone lube on silicone toys is discouraged), then slip on the smaller bulbed G-spot accessory for penetration, or pop on the forked nipple/clitoral accessory for soft surface stroking.
“I love the nipple/clit stimulating head that can be added to the wand the most,” writes one reviewer. “My partner loved it as well. Overall great wand. Easy to hold and use.” Bonus: Inside the discreet shipping box, the vibrator comes tastefully packaged in a box that’s suitable for gifting.
26. Sexology Pussy Power Bullet
“This is the first toy I've purchased, says one reviewer. “It's small and easy to use. I really like the fact that's it's rechargeable,” summing up the appeal of this straight-to-the-point bullet vibrator. It only has one steady setting that can be used for penetration or external stimulation. The pink color and feline imagery are cute, and users say its steady purr gets the job done. (PS—We like it for travel, too.)
27. Coco de Mer Pleasure No. 1 The Seed
Nothing says “I’m an international woman of the world” more than packing a clitoral vibrator that’s based on the national fruit of the Seychelles. That’s the inspo for The Seed, a palm-sized, ten-speed vibe that is made to nestle around the labia and thrum with dual motors. The silicone body’s rich brown silicone matches the elegant brown vegan leather case, and both the toy’s accent and case’s zipper are rich gold. It’s pricey, but in the hustle and bustle of travel, it’s nice to know you have a relaxing and indulgent treat waiting for you when you finally reach your destination.
28. Dame Eva Vibrator
At the end of your life, don’t be the person lying on your death bed thinking, Why didn’t I try that cute little vibrator with the wings that’s supposed to stay put during coupled sex? We’re talking about the innovative Eva vibrator, which its makers say they created because “holding a toy in place can be distracting and even counterproductive. Eva leaves your hands free so that you can be fully in the moment.”
The teensy (1.7 inches high) little device has flexible arms (the brand describes them as wings) that tuck under the outer labia, securing the three-speed rumbling body right on top or next to the clitoris. “This is great for partnered sex, but I have also loved it on my own,” says one reviewer. “Now one of my favorite toys. I love the rumbly vibrations and bright color. Eva takes me to orgasm in just minutes.” Bonus: It has a discreet charging case, so unlike most toys, you can plug this one in right in the open.
29. Velvet Thruster
It’s pricey, but this custom thrusting vibrator has all the bells and whistles. Made of ultra-soft silicone, the shafts flex and bend while thrusting, a unique design consideration that makes the experience lifelike. And with your choice of five head shapes, in four colors, and five rechargeable base colors, you can have experiences that range from girthy to G-spot bulbous. The motor has six speeds, up to 140 strokes per minute, with a 3.3 inch stroke length.
If this sounds really engineer-y and not sexy, don’t be fooled: “The depth and speed of the Velvet Thruster Prime is absolutely incredible!” says one reviewer. “I love that I can easily switch up the speeds and angles while it's inside of me, and that the textured feel of the Jackie Prime (the head I chose) is literal perfection.”
30. Discreet Lipstick Vibrator
If you’re looking for a clitoral vibrator that’s small and super-stealthy, this lipstick vibrator is for you. “Fits right in with your makeup, literally NO one will ever know,” writes one reviewer about this ten-speed device. It's chargeable via USB and is ideal for travel—not even TSA will catch what's in your carry on.
31. Vush Pop Bundle
Do you know a sex toy aficionada, or has your lover expressed interest in learning about the wide world of sex toys? Gift her this set of four toys from Vush, including Gloss, a pint-sized bullet vibe; Shine, a G-spot vibe; the Plump palm vibrator and Swish, a dual-tip vibe. All are rechargeable, waterproof and made of tasteful millennial pink silicone.
Oh and they’ve got low-battery warnings, so when that one-hour run time is winding down, you’ll both know. And all the toys hum along at less than 50 decibels (so you’ll probably end up making more noise than the device does).
32. Lelo Ora 3
This award-winning device has a unique mechanism that simulates the lapping motion of oral sex not with vibration or air currents, but with a rotating “pleasure nub” that moves around underneath the device’s silicone covering. It’s designed to be used to initiate arousal by holding around the clitoris, then going direct for a big finish. We love that the randomized movements of the nub are impossible to predict, helping users to stay focused while using it.
33. Satisfyer Sexy Secret Panty Vibe
This small, thin vibrator rests in your panties, secured by magnets; your partner (or you) control it via app. So, school drop-off just got fun (kidding!). We’re talking date night together or staying connected while your partner is out of town, since with consent, your partner can control the ten intensities of humming, pulsing and throbbing. “This is such a fun little toy. It’s very soft, smooth and discreet,” says one user. “The app has quite a few options and the fact that it can be controlled remotely is a bonus.” And did we mention there’s music syncing?
What Are the Main Types of Vibrators?
There are several kinds of vibrators, which give you loads of ways to experience different sensations and get off the way that works best for you. It can be a bit overstimulating at first, but here's a breakdown of each one.
Are Vibrators Worth It for Women?
Short answer: YES! If it's hard for you to get off with just your hands or penetration alone, these welcomed vibrations can make it easier to achieve an orgasm. They're also good to bring into the bedroom to add a little excitement for partner play.
What Are Some Tips for Choosing A Vibrator for Maximum Fun?
"A lot of times people can overlook the simple bullet vibe, because it doesn’t seem intense enough," Braverman says. "However, small and discreet options can be taken wherever a user needs, and they pack a punch. They can be used on the clit or internally, with a partner or without. Additionally, it’s important not to forget to look at the material. While there are infinite cheap vibrator options available, it’s important to get one that’s safe for your body. We recommend silicone, which is soft and non-porous, so completely worth the price tag."
Finally, the Age-Old Vibrator Question: Battery-Operated or Rechargeable?
“It’s important not to overlook the necessity of a battery-powered option,” Braverman says. “There’s nothing worse than your vibrator dying while you’re in the middle of things and waiting 45 minutes for it to recharge seems impossible. With batteries, you can replace in a minute and keep going.”
The 22 Best Places to (Discreetly) Buy Sex Toys Online in 2023
Want to know which buzzy products are *really* worth buying? Sign up for our shopping newsletter to uncover our favorite finds.
Why You Should Trust Us
PureWow's editors and writers have spent more than a decade shopping online, digging through sales and putting our home goods, beauty finds, wellness picks and more through the wringer—all to help you determine which are actually worth your hard-earned cash. From our PureWow100 series (where we rank items on a 100-point scale) to our painstakingly curated lists of fashion, beauty, cooking, home and family picks, you can trust that our recommendations have been thoroughly vetted for function, aesthetics and innovation. Whether you're looking for travel-size hair dryers you can take on-the-go or women’s walking shoes that won’t hurt your feet, we’ve got you covered.
