The 30 Best Couples' Sex Toys to Gift (and Enjoy) in 2024, Based on *Very Steamy* Reviews
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We’ll let you in on a secret: Any sex toy is a couples’ sex toy if you try hard enough (or just get creative enough). And there's a universe of adult selections to find both in stores and online—from luxe niche brands like Lelo and Dame to trusted big names, such as Spencers and Pure Romance—all with discreet mailing. Options run the gamut, from insertable vibrators and clitoral stimulators—like the Ida couples’ vibrator ($179) from Lelo and the Womanizer stimulator ($199) from Lovehoney—to penis rings. So, whether you’re shopping for a Valentine’s Day gift for her or him, anniversary gift or just ‘cause, we tapped a couple of sex experts and vetted thousands of user reviews to source a list of the 30 best couples’ sex toys to enjoy.
The Best Couples' Sex Toys at a Glance
Meet the Experts
How We Chose the Best Couples’ Sex Toys
We sought out recommendations from a few of our trusty PureWow editors who have personally tested some of the devices below. Additionally, we consulted sex experts, investigated designs and pored through thousands of customer reviews, paying careful attention to the materials, ease of use, battery life, speeds, modes, waterproofing and functionality to sort out the best couples' sex toys for pleasuring you both.
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1. Lelo Tor 2 Couples' Ring
This matte green body-safe silicone ring fits over the penis, and has six speeds from a faint murmur to a strong pulse. It's meant to give pleasure to both partners, since the vibrating part stimulates the wearer and the partner. As one user writes: "My wife loves the many vibrations. Helps me maintain longer erections. Best yet, my wife loves the big Os." Oh, and it's waterproof and rechargeable.
2. Womanizer OG
If you're someone who gets pleasure from both internal and external stimulation, this vibrator is for you. Use it in the bedroom with your partner to increase your climax, thank us later. Here's how it works: One end of the slender 6.9-inch vibrator has the controls, while the other has a rounded tip with an air stimulation center, which can be held against your clitoris or G-spot. Twelve intensity levels of air stimulation, plus three speeds of vibration, mean there's a lot of potential for experimentation with this streamlined device. And bonus—by pressing the minus button after you climax, the vibrator ratchets down to its lowest hum, aka the "afterglow" setting. It was a late 2022 addition to the Womanizer brand lineup, but its innovation quickly racked up rave reviews: "Ladies, buy this for yourself. You will not regret it," says one reviewer. "Gents, buy this and use it on your lady. You will not regret it."
3. Fifty Shades of Grey Keep Still Over the Bed Cross Restraint
BDSM is not for the faint of heart, but if it's you and your partner's cup of tea, these bed restraints will kick it up a notch. It has ankle and wrist cuffs and is inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey books. One note of caution: Be sure to check your bed's measurements before ordering it, as the product is not returnable.
4. Lelo Hula Beads
These beads are remote controlled and will rotate and vibrate for the ultimate pleasure sensation. LELO claims these beads will offer a thrilling hands-free experience that "turns your whole body into a sensual dance floor," and we're not mad about it. Neither is this happy reviewer: "I bought this product for my wife about a month ago," the reviewer writes. "It’s well-built easy to use and great for couples' play. The vibrations are very strong and the remote are perfect for discreet play."
5. Ohmibod Esca 2
Have your partner download the app so the intensity and pattern of this toy can be controlled from their fingertips while you have a virtual date. It has three vibration levels and four vibrational patterns, and works so well, one reviewer said it was "one of those products you don’t realize you need in your life."
6. Zumio X Clitoral Stimulator
"I am no stranger to high-end toys, but the Zumio X is an absolute game changer—solo and especially with a partner," writes one user, who describes having intensified orgasms with it. This slender device uses rotation instead of the vibration that most handheld toys offer, resulting in more pinpointed stimulation. A small rotating head massages massage the clitoris, with eight speeds to choose from.
7. Adorime G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator
This cheerful pink Y-shaped silicone vibrator gets high marks for versatility since its ergonomic shape and multiple settings make it adaptable to practically any erogenous zone. As one user explains, "There are seven settings for the top two heads, and seven settings for the shaft, making 49 different possible combinations of vibrating pleasure. You are sure to find the right combination(s) for yourself and your partner."
8. Crave Vesper Vibrator
This teeny, portable vibrator has a rounded tip for exterior stimulation and a nearly 4-inch shaft for interior stimulation. It also has four speeds and two modes—but that’s not all. Meant to be worn as a necklace, you can easily slip it around your neck (and use it as a signal to let your partner know exactly what time it is).
9. We-Vibe Sync Couples' Vibrator
Clip this on your partner during intercourse for some dual stimulation, delivering clitorial and G-spot pleasure that you can also feel. Totally waterproof, this is a great toy to keep in the shower or bath. What’s more, there’s an app that allows you to control the vibration modes and intensity levels from up to nearly 10 feet away, making it a cheeky way to spice up your foreplay. “Having control of her from a distance was a huge turn on,” says one reviewer.
10. Alula Lifestyle Anal Training Set
Anal play can be the third rail in relationships, but this sparkly set of plugs might help charm a person into exploring new frontiers. Plus, the three sizes included in this set means trying these out is less intimidating than a one-size-fits-all experience with a single plug.
11. We-Vibe Moxie
Sex educator Kiana Reeves says "discreet toys that can be worn underneath your clothing are on the rise." Case in point: the WeVibe Moxie remote- and app-controlled wearable clitoral panty vibrator. It's a 3.5-inch by 3-inch super skinny vibrator that fastens to your underwear via a super strong magnet, and a handheld remote that controls the speed and intensity of vibrations. And—this is the prestige, if you will—the panty vibrator can also be controlled via Bluetooth app from anywhere.
12. Dame Eva II Hands-Free Vibrator
The Eva II is perfect for clitoral arousal during sex, and according to PureWow’s Associate Commerce Editor, Stephanie Meraz, who put it to the test for an in-depth PureWow100 review, it’s a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. It also features a hands-free design (the two wings can be tucked under the labia to stay in place), so you two can use those hands for...other stuff. Or, if you prefer, your partner can keep it still using only one finger. Plus it's waterproof.
13. MysteryVibe Crescendo
This bendable vibrator lets you indulge in a combination of old school creativity (you and your partner can bend it to whatever shape you want) and new tech gadgetry (there are six motors down the length of it controlled by an app with pre-set motions or your own sequencing). Clitoral, G-spot and perineum stimulation are all part of its tricks (of which there are so many, the makers came out with a deck of cards so you can collect all the sensations).
14. Dominix Deluxe Blindfold
Blindfolds are great for building tension and teasing your partner. This lightly padded one is a better option than the many flimsy versions on the market, and it has a buckle that keeps it in position far better than the satiny, slippery ribbons on other masks. "This blindfold does not move one bit. It keeps out all the light, feels comfortable on the wearer, is adjustable, made sturdy," writes one satisfied customer.
15. Fifty Shades of Grey Please Sir Flogger
This silver metallic faux leather whip is on the cuter end of the BDSM accessories spectrum but still will sting when playfully wielded. Take turns using it on each other for a buildup and pleasurable tingling experience. And at $29, consider this your 'Intro to Kink' accessory without having to invest in spendy leather goods.
16. Lelo Ida Couples' Vibrator
This Lelo vibrator comes with a serious price tag—but it’s worth it, we promise. "Very stylish thing to use and extremely fun to play with," reports one reviewer about this toy that's made to be inserted. During intercourse, it will vibe for you both, while giving her a little extra clitoral stimulation. Oh, and while it is remote controlled, it is possible to change the settings without it.
17. Dame Fin Finger Vibrator
Each partner can take turns slipping this blue toy on their fingers and using it, well, wherever they’d like. This small-but-mighty vibrator can be used on three speed settings during both foreplay and sex. And, BTW, it’s definitely discrete enough to travel with.
18. Satisfyer Endless Love Toy
See those two tiny buttons? They operate two separate motors (one upper and one lower), delivering the exact vibe you want, exactly where you want it. This Satisfyer tool can be worn 14 different ways, for women, men and couples.
19. Fifty Shades of Grey Inner Goddess Pleasure Balls
As Fifty Shades of Grey author E.L. James writes: "I flush from the constant movement of the silver balls. They weigh down inside me, massaging me internally and make me needy, needy for sex." Each of these weighs just under 4 ounces, and one reviewer reports, "I think these are some of the heavier balls available, which is more of a challenge and more sensational for the wearer." It's the secret that it's inside that will help increase the sexy tension between you and your partner until they're taken out.
20. Kiki De Montparnasse The Cloud Massager
This vibrator comes from luxury French lingerie designer Kiki De Montparnasse, and it's got an upscale feel to it—from its small size (only 5 inches by 1.5 inches) to maximum features: It has eight intensity levels and an air-puffing function for clitoral stimulation for couples or individuals. "Chic, discreet and very effective," writes one user, who adds that it comes with a little silk bag for discretion.
21. Dame Pillo Pillow
By day, it's a mild-mannered wedge-shaped pillow among the collection on your bed. By night, it becomes a soft-yet-firm wedge that supports you in all sorts of positions. Fifteen inches wide and 18 inches deep, this pillow comes with a removable, washable cover. "Has transformed my sex life," one reviewer reports. "This not only allows for the woman to be supported and in the perfect positions, but it takes pressure off the man during oral sex especially. Highly recommended!"
22. Tenuto Wearable Vibrator For Men
A unique design that is all about adding sensation for all parties involved, Tenuto is designed to stretch and adapt around the penis and perineum for increased blood flow, extended erection and long-lasting pleasure. You pull the sides of it apart to fit around a penis, and it vibrates before and during penetration, so scrotum, labia, shaft—it's all getting stimulated.
23. Adam & Eve's Fetish Dreams Beginner Bondage Set
Lightly padded diamond-stitched vegan leather in basic black complements the classic design of this paddle. At 13 inches long and 2.5 inches wide, it's not super-big and scary, and lightweight enough to wield for what its makers suggest: "Use it for gentle correction, caressing skin or serious spanking fantasies." The matching ankle and wrist cuffs plus blindfold round out the set.
$114; $94 at My Sensual Secrets
24. Lovehoney Colourplay Nipple Suckers
These devices suction the nipples for enhanced sensitivity and arousal. The suction is gently and delightfully stimulating for even more pleasure in the bedroom, and this toy gives you a fun reason to leave the lights on—the silicone material changes color as body temperature rises.
25. Fun Factory Manta
"I bought this after a session where my wife used her vibrator on my penis and found that I could orgasm from the sensation," writes one reviewer. "It makes sense if you just think of the penis being a big clitoris...a big source of pleasure." This device has two silicone wings that wrap around a man's penis, with ridges along the inside of the wings to hold lubricant in place for added sensation. Added bonus: It's suitable for solo and couples' play.
26. Phanxy Clitoral Tongue Vibrator
This little palm-sized device is meant to give women a new experience of oral sex, with the center of its rose petals designed to move like a tongue in the user's choice of nine speeds. Robot cunnilingus, anyone? Bonus: If your partner holds this against your naughty bits, they'll be able to enjoy your pleasure eye-to-eye at the same time as they're giving you (simulated) oral sex.
27. Bijoux Indiscrets Twenty One Vibrating Diamond
On your nightstand, it looks like a cute golden diamond-shaped decorative object. But turn it on and cycle it through seven vibration patterns and three intensities, and it's mind-blowing as well as decorative. The 3-inch diameter device nestles in your palm and both the flat edge and tip can be used for stimulating both partners.
28. Lovehoney Ignite 20 Function Vibrating Plug
A novice user comments: "My partner and I wanted to try something new and thought we would give anal toys a go. This toy isn’t intimidating and really comfortable. Loads of settings to play with and really easy to use." It's three inches long and has three speeds and 17 patterns of vibration, and bonus, it's completely waterproof.
29. Foria Intimacy Bath Salts
Add a scoop of these bath salts to your tub to heighten sensations and get you ready for action. Foria sells two beautiful bath salts—Wellness Salts and Intimacy Salts. Our reviewer tried both separately, and while they're all luxurious and gorgeous smelling, she says the Intimacy Bath Salts really take the cake. "Upon leaving the bath, my skin was super soft, I smelled great (thanks to ingredients like rose, kava, cacao, hemp and Himalayan salt) and I was honestly ready to get down in the sheets. Amazing."
30. Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager
Remember that episode of Sex and City when Samantha's "neck" massager died at the worst possible moment? Well, we took two lessons from that: Massagers can be actual sex toys, and cordless and rechargeable ones are an absolute must. This one is ideal for couples experiencing sex toys for the first time. It's effortless to use: All you or your partner needs to do is use it on your erogenous zones. And it has a flexible neck and 20 vibration patterns to match your comfort level.
How to Find the Right Couples' Sex Toy for You
Remember when we said that any sex toy is a couples' sex toy? Well, that's true; the sky is the limit. "Technically speaking, a couples sex toy is one that targets both partners together, whether simultaneously or not." says sex educator Reeves. "Take a couples vibrator, for example—it can be inserted into the vagina during penetration and enhance sensation for the clitoris, G-spot, and the penis at the same time. To enhance couple’s play even further, I recommend adding Foria Sex Oil with CBD ($44), designed for people with penises and vaginas, into the mix." From goddess pleasure balls to targeted vibrators, all types of toys are available. But truth is, only you and your partner know what's actually best for you, considering each other's comfort levels and limitations. Here are some points to consider when shopping for a couples' sex toy:
I'm Curious, but Don't Know How to Bring Up Sex Toys with My Partner
You might be surprised at how receptive your partner is to experimenting with a toy—lots of couples are using sex toys to enhance their experience and communication. "We’re starting to see some of the taboo around the topic lifted, which is a wonderful thing," says Reeves. "The pandemic definitely gave us all some extra time to focus inward and think about what we want and what brings us the most pleasure in and out of the bedroom – and now, a lot of the stigma around sharing those thoughts and feelings with a partner has lessened." Sex toy brand We-Vibe conducted a study of 1,000 men and women between the ages of 35 and 55 and found that 49 percent of couples that use vibrators together report communicating often, whether about sex toys or other topics. Added bonus: There's evidence that using toys together increases couples' ease with giving and getting direction from their partner in bed.
Soumyadip Rakshit, founder of British sexual wellness firm MysteryVibe, suggests you "ease partners into the conversation about sex toys by sharing well-researched articles, especially in reputable outlets." Or you can simply say: "I was thinking about trying this toy with you and wanted to know what you thought." Anything that keeps the focus on mutual pleasure and playful curiosity is a great way to introduce toys in general or a specific one.
Finally, a great way to get inspired is to browse online superstores like Lovehoney and PinkCherry that sell all the best brands and have a steady stream of irresistible sales.
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