22 Quiet Vibrators to Have Silent Self-Sex (or to Enjoy with a Partner)
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You, me, your roommates—we're all hopefully sex-positive. But as of yet, we're not as open about using our sex toys as we are, say, our electric toothbrush. (Come to think of it, who really wants to think of their roommate using their electric toothbrush, even?) So, until the time (never, we hope) that we are all completely uninhibited and unabashed about all things sexual, we're all for keeping our use of vibrators as -hibited and -bashed as possible—we're talking way discreet, quiet vibrators. While a completely silent vibrator is an oxymoron, we've rounded up the best, next-to-silent tools out there. They're all available for discreet online purchase, and the list includes something for everyone (yes, you too, romping couples). Our best overall pick is the Lelo Dot ($179; $120) because of how it focuses on the clitoris, is easy to hold and very quiet. So, for all the trips to stay with your parents, house guest invites and even just taking care of business after your S.O. is already asleep, check out our favorite quiet vibrators.
The Best Quiet Vibrators at a Glance
How We Chose the Best Quiet Vibrators
After reading glowing reviews and selecting bestsellers from some of our favorite vetted brands, we were able to come up with a list of the best quiet vibrators we think you'll enjoy. From the features on the vibrator, like the number of vibration patterns to long battery life to how quiet it truly is, there are tons of things about the ones on this list that will have you adding one (or a few) to your cart ASAP.
1. Lelo Dot
This adorable toy has an opening in the center which makes for an easy-hold grip. It's also easy to clean thanks to its body-safe silicone. And when it comes to putting it to use, the pinpoint design and vibrations patterns are made to focus on the clitoris.
2. Maude Vibe
This waterproof, 4.8-inch vibrator has three speeds that are easy to operate with a touch button at the base. It's designed for external and internal use, and comes with a discreet little canvas bag for travel and storage.
3. Phanxy Rose Toy Vibrator
This viral TikTok toy has nine licking modes, so there's an intensity for your (almost) every mood. One reviewer saw this on social media and said it was powerful enough to make your toes curl yet innocuous-looking enough to leave out on a bedside table.
4. Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Clitoral Stimulator
The Womanizer design is a PureWow favorite, from its quiet functions to the pleasurable air pulse technology meant to stimulate your clitoris. This one is fully waterproof and offers six levels of intensity and uses contactless stimulation with air and suction to have you going from zero to 100 in seconds.
5. Desire Luxury Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator
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Discretion and power are the buzzwords (!) for this bullet vibrator that has 17 patterns of vibration and three intensities. Our favorite thoughtful little extra: The carry case has an opening to fit the power cord through, so you can leave this discreetly charging on your bedside table without housekeeping being any the wise.
6. Smile Makers The Artist
Two powerful motors—one for the internal arm and the other for the external—and still so quiet! That's the verdict on this rabbit-style vibrator that can also be used for simultaneous clitoral and anal play. Plus, a genius design innovation allows users to switch vibration intensities by just squeezing the handle.
7. We-Vibe Chorus Couples Vibrator
This high-tech vibrator can be turned on remotely via the app, which allows the controller to manipulate its dual vibration motors through ten speeds. But it's not just for long-distance couples play—a remote control lets you put the device in place and then turn on whichever motor and speed you like, during solo or couples play. As for its noise level? Users report wearing it in public (dinner, the movies) and not being detected.
8. Dame Products Eva 2
This little gadget has wings that spring out, nestling under the outer labia to rest between partners during penetrative vaginal sex. Or it can be fit around the outer labia—whatever the user or users want, in order to leave the device in place without having to hold it.
9. Ft London G Vibe 3 Dual Vibrator
The two pliable wings and handle allow simultaneous stimulation of the G‑spot and the opposite wall of vagina and the entrance of vagina or the man's prostate. And since the wings fold together, there's no stretching to insert this vibrator (a rarity among G-spot-specific devices).
10. Mantric Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator
The tapered end is great for steady external pressure, and the one-button controls are unintimidating for newbies. Plus, it's all waterproof, making this great to really rocket tub time to the next dimension in relaxation, but quietly.
11. Crave Bullet
It's metal and waterproof, talk about durability. This stylish 2.5-inch long vibe comes in gold and silver, and it looks more like jewelry than a vibrator. But for external stimulation, it does the trick, and quietly.
12. Je Joue Rabbit Bullet Vibrator
At less than four inches long, this design combines the best of the bullet vibrator with the pizzazz of a rabbit model (dual clitoral stimuli). Je Joue's low-frequency rumbling is quiet, but seems to penetrate more deeply than buzzy bullets, to produce deeper climaxes.
13. Unbound Babes Bean Vibrator
For a broad-surface vibration, nothing beats a palm vibrator. This body-safe silicone model is easy to operate, lightweight and whisper quiet. Reviewers mention that the shape can slip out of your hand easily, but overall has a comfortable feel in the hand. It has six vibration modes and is rechargeable while also has an option for AAA batteries.
14. Lovehoney Silencer Vibrator
The single push-button on this purring vibrator makes it easy to operate and the seven-inch insertable length means it's going to work for a wide range of users. And the rippled shaft? A game-changer from the usual slick texture of most vibrators.
15. Desire Luxury Clitoral Vibrator
The tapered tip of this vibrator lets you position its four-inch length with precision, and the many pulsing and throbbing patterns and speeds mean you can find the one that's juuuust right. But even with all that, users report it as being extra quiet.
16. PinkCherry Baby Nubby Mini Wand
Its round, textured head and powerful rumblings are mighty even though it's super small. It has a silky smooth silicone head and plastic handle for an easy hold. Wand styles are classics since they're so easy to hold and manipulate, and this waterproof model does just that.
17. Geron Anal Vibrator
The ergonomic design keeps this gizmo from slipping out once it's in place, as well as maximizing prostate stimulation. Ten speeds mean there's an intensity for every stage of sex play, up to 90 minutes on one charge.
18. California Dreaming Laguna Beach Lover
Three speeds of flicking action of the tapered flexible end of this vibrator mimic the action (and with textured silicone, feel) of a tongue. The charging port closes to make this waterproof, and the whole operation hums, not roars.
19. Sway Vibrator
The ergonomic design of this double-ended vibrator is enough to win you over (each has its own head shape for hitting your G-spot). Add to that, the Sway has a warming design that gently and evenly heats up, without hot spots, plus seven intensity settings and no big noisy operation.
20. Imo Full Silicone Vibrating Cock Ring
Slip the stretchy bands of this penis ring around the penis to delay ejaculation for men, while their partner can press against the vibrations coming from the just-under four-inch vibrator. And it's also useful as a handheld nipple stimulator—at no louder than a quiet rainfall.
21. Leaf Spirit Plus Vibrator
A wireless remote controls this through seven speeds of whispery rumbling that can be slipped inside underwear and worn in public, with no one knowing. It's waterproof, too. There's no inner core to this vibrator, too, meaning it's going to be soft and flexible no matter what position you're in.
22. Fun Factory Stronic G Vibrator
This USB-rechargeable vibrator silently thrusts forward in your choice of ten speeds for a unique vibrator experience. And since the base right by the handle is thicker, you'll get external stimulation at the same time. Win-win.
What to Consider When Shopping for Quiet Vibrators
Quiet vibrators are easier to come by these days as that's what many people are looking for when they're shopping for a sex toy. Whether you have roommates or travel a lot or the motor sound just throws you out of the mood, you should keep in mind a few things when looking for a quiet vibrator.
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