Money and Happiness: Helping a Caregiver Climb Out of Debt
Then suddenly, dementia set in. By hiring a full-time companion for his mother during the day, Joe managed to care for her at his home for the next five years. "I was determined to keep her with me as long as possible," he says. "I was successful until the last two months of her life and I am very proud of that."
While Joe made a huge deposit in the bank of integrity -- one that will pay peace-of-mind dividends forever -- it left his finances in disarray. He contributed to the cost of his mother's care, and when she moved into a nursing home far from public transportation, he had to lease a car to visit her.
Following her death, Joe had his own series of mishaps: He slipped on the winter ice and got a concussion; he was mugged and ended up in the hospital; and he broke an ankle during a weekend trip, putting him out of his corporate purchasing job for two months with no short-term disability coverage.
"I find myself feeling like I am on the edge of a cliff with a very large dog bearing down on me quickly," he says. Over the last year or so, he has amassed $15,000 in credit card and medical debt. He owes $124,000 on his mortgage, a 30-year fixed-rate loan at 6.375%. On the upside, he earns $80,000 a year and has $40,000 saved in his 401(k) plan, although he stopped contributing to it as the debt piled up.
After paying his fixed monthly bills -- housing, utilities, transportation, insurance and minimums on his debt -- Joe has about $1,700 a month left. But it evaporates. "When I put the numbers down on paper, it seems that I should be in fine shape but for some reason I am broke at the end of each pay period," he says. Food is one possible culprit: With his mom gone, he eats out instead of cooking, and has a generous tendency to pick up the check when dining with friends.
A Step-by-Step Plan for Joe
First, Joe needs to identify the black holes in his budget so he can earmark more money to paying down debt. He can use a budgeting tool that links electronically to his checking and savings and automatically tracks his spending such as Mint.com, a free tool, or a paid subscription program like Mvelopes.com. (Full disclosure: I previously worked as a freelance contributor for the site.)
Third, Joe should look for quick budget cuts he can make to accelerate his pay down. For instance, he hates driving, and only leased his Volkswagen Jetta to visit his mother in the nursing home. The lease, insurance and gas cost him about $570 a month, and he's got a little over a year left on the contract.
Joe preferred his old commute, by train and bike, which cost about $150 a month. "When I didn't have a car, I rode my bike everywhere," he says. "I felt better physically, and commuting by train to my office downtown, I had time to relax and read."
Joe can call Volkswagen Credit and find out the terms and fees for legally transferring the lease to another driver, and then connect with interested parties at sites such as leasetrader.com or swapalease.com. It may cost several hundred dollars in fees to close the deal, but Joe could save several thousand over the course of a year by dumping the lease early.
Another possible source of immediate cash may be hiding in Joe's taxes. In April, he typically receives a tax refund of $3,200. By adjusting his withholding, he can get that money in his monthly paycheck right now, and use it to further eliminate debt or to restart his 401(k) contributions.
Finally, once Joe has a clear handle on his spending and debts, his credit score will organically improve, positioning him to refinance his 6.375% mortgage. Joe has 24 years left on the loan. Because interest rates have hit historic lows, he could shift into a 15-year, fixed-rate loan and shave nine years off the mortgage for only $60 more a month. That would position him to be mortgage-free when he's retirement age.
Alternately, Joe is considering downsizing. He says his house is too big for just him and his dog. "I don't need 1,600 square feet," he says. "I use two rooms out of seven. I want to simplify. But I think I'll wait a year, get myself back on track and reevaluate."
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