Like many women in their 30s and 40s, I grew up with the benefits of women's work from the previous generation. Title IX: check. "We can do it all" spirit: check. Higher education followed by high-powered careers: check, check. But as technology advances hastened, life did as well and before I knew it, I was a statistic, on the far side of the bell curve: mid-30s, no kids, and a desire to have them.