As president Obama arrived to meet with grieving families in Newtown, Connecticut Sunday-- it brings new sadness to Scott Larimer at his home in Crystal Lake. “The pain is universal. I wish I could go there to give them a hug. But we can’t so we have to do it from afar,” Scott said. His son, John, was one of 12 people killed in the Aurora, Colorado Theater shooting in July, and in many ways, knows the pain. The grief being felt 800 miles away.