How much should I spend on an engagement ring?

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How Much Should I Spend on an Engagement Ring?

There's nothing like falling in love and finding the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. But when it's time to shop for rings, it's easy to get discouraged by the price tags. Just how much should you spend on an engagement ring? We'll dive into the topic and discuss ways to save on the big purchase.

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What the Average Engagement Ring Costs

Maybe you can't buy love. But if you're in the market for an engagement ring, you'll quickly realize that it won't be cheap. According to the Knot's 2015 Real Weddings Study, Americans spent an average of $5,871 on engagement rings, up from $5,855 in 2014. Wedding bands for the bride and engagement rings combined cost between $5,968 and $6,258.

If you want your wedding to happen sooner rather than later, keep in mind that on average, couples spend more than $30,000 to tie the knot. That's roughly how much you can expect to pay for everything from your wedding reception and DJ to your cake and your photographer. Location matters when it comes to weddings, however, so you might be able to save some money by choosing a more affordable place to host your ceremony.

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How Much Should I Spend?

Conventional wisdom says that anyone planning to propose to their partner should prepare to spend at least two or three months of their salary on an engagement ring. But spending too much isn't a good idea for various reasons.

A recent study conducted by Emory University connected pricey rings to divorce rates. Men who spent more money on rings for their fiancees were more likely to end their marriages. That's a possible long-term consequence of overspending on an engagement ring. In the short term, using a large percentage of your money to buy a ring might prevent you from using those funds to pay bills or stay on top of your debt, which can hurt your credit score.

If the marriage doesn't work out and your ex-spouse decides to sell their diamond engagement ring, its value won't be nearly as high as it was when it was first purchased. That's why diamond rings can be such bad investments.

So exactly how much should you spend on an engagement ring? It's a good idea to make sure that the price you pay doesn't prevent you or your partner from accomplishing whatever you're planning to achieve in the future, whether that's buying a house or having a child. Rather than following an old-school societal notion that says you should spend x amount of money on a ring, it's best to spend an amount that won't compromise your financial goals or jeopardize the status of your relationship.

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How to Save on the Ring

If you don't want the engagement ring you're buying to break the bank, it's a good idea to learn as much as you can about the rings and what makes some more expensive than others. Diamonds are the gems most commonly used in engagement rings, and if you're buying one for your significant other, it's important to familiarize yourself with what jewelers refer to as the four C's: clarity, cut, color and carat weight.

In terms of clarity, the best diamonds are flawless, meaning that they don't have any blemishes when viewed under a microscope with 10 power magnification. Since no one's eyesight is that powerful, you can get away with choosing a diamond with a lower clarity grade that costs less. Getting a diamond that has fewer carats (meaning that it weighs less) or getting one that isn't completely colorless can also lower its overall price.

Or don't get a diamond at all. Your partner might be just as happy with a simple band, a white sapphire or an emerald ring and it probably won't cost as much as a diamond engagement ring. Shopping for your ring at a vintage store, looking for one online rather than in-person and getting a ring with a series of smaller stones surrounding the center stone (also known as a halo ring) are a few additional ways to save when buying a ring.

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Final Word

And you don't have to feel guilty about cutting corners in order to find one that you can afford to buy.

Like any other major purchase, it's a good idea to take time to save up for a ring. If you have to take on more credit card debt or a personal loan in order to buy an engagement ring, it's a good idea to find out how long it'll take to pay off your debt. It isn't wise to begin a marriage by digging yourself (and your partner) into a deep financial hole.

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1. Clear your browser history

Some retailers might sneakily increase prices based on your browsing patterns and demand - so make sure to always clear your history and cookies before shopping! 

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2. Use an alternate email address

When you log in to a retailer's site with a new email address, retailers will often welcome you as a new customer with exciting new promotions and discounts. 

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3. Note price changes throughout the week

Another pro tip: Prices and deals can fluctuate based on the day of the week. For instance, if you're purchasing a flight, monitor prices for around a week to see if they take a dip on any particular day before purchasing. 

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4. Let items linger in your cart

Here's a hack: Add items to your cart, but let them sit for 24 hours before purchasing. The retailer might attempt to lure you back with additional discounts.

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5. Check out multiple sites

Do some research! Don't settle for the first price you see - poke around on a search engine and find the best deal. 

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6. Bargain with customer service

Use customer service to your advantage. If you ask (politely!) about an expired coupon, you'll often find yourself pleasantly surprised by an extension or new code! 

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7. Don't purchase impulsively

Try this shopping hack - don't buy that shiny, new toy right away. Step away for a few hours, and if you find yourself itching to go back and click 'purchase', then you know you won't regret your investment!

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8. Avoid shipping fees

Take advantage of free shipping! If you are a few dollars below the free shipping price point, add a low-cost filler item you need anyway (like socks!) and make the math work out in your favor. 

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