Should you help a family member in debt?

Before you go, we thought you'd like these...

5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Mixing Finance With Family

Watching loved ones struggle with their personal finances is never fun, especially when you're doing relatively well yourself. But before you rush to the aid of your mother, your brother or your favorite cousin, it's a good idea to consider how that might impact your own financial situation. Check out some of the pros and cons of loaning money to a family member in debt.

Check out our personal loans calculator.

The Pros

Being able to support a family member who's facing a financial difficulty can make you feel good about yourself. You'll have the opportunity to work together to implement good financial strategies and in the process, you might learn something that can help you manage your own money more effectively. And since you can never be completely sure about your own financial future, helping your relative get back on track might provide you with a safety net that you can rely on if you need help from that same relative later down the line.

It's important to take the time to sit down with your relative and discuss what has worked well for you financially in the past. You can help him or her create a tighter budget (with loan repayments to you built in) and connect him or her with a professional financial advisor or credit counselor if need be. The more comfortable your family member is with talking about money, the better the experience is likely to be.

The Cons

When it comes down to it, helping family members out of debt is a big deal financially speaking. Before you make that move, it's best to think about how it could affect your relationship. You run the risk of turning your personal relationship into a business transaction, and you might feel like money is all you talk about. Eventually, it might create tension or lead a serious disagreement.

You could also make yourself financially vulnerable by lending a family member a portion of your wealth. If you choose to let someone borrow your money, keep in mind that you don't want to lend any amount that could get you into trouble.

Related Article: 5 Tips for Lending Money to Friends or Family

Important Questions to Ask Yourself

As you weigh the advantages and disadvantages of lending money to a relative, there are several things you'll need to clear up. Will this be a temporary situation or an ongoing arrangement? A gift or a loan? Can they afford to pay you back at some point? What will you do if they can't?

You'll also have to consider whether providing someone with a loan is a good use of your money. Instead of relying on you, could your family member turn to debt management, debt settlement or bankruptcy? Are there other ways you can help?

Related Article: 4 Signs It's Time to File Bankruptcy

Final Word

Deciding how to assist a family member in need isn't easy. As an alternative to becoming your relative's sole source of financial support, (or turning down his or her request) you can always offer to fund part of the debt repayments. Managing your expectations and finding a happy medium that won't jeopardize your chances of achieving financial success are key.

RELATED: 20 unusual ways to make money fast:

21 PHOTOS
20 unusual ways to make quick money
See Gallery
Should you help a family member in debt?

Dog-sitting, babysitting, or house-sitting

These jobs are always in high demand, and the best part: you can name your price and create your own schedule! Post an ad on craigslist, or use your friends' and family's connections to get your name out there. 

Photo via Getty

Rent out your space 

List your apartment on Airbnb or another rental site, and make some easy cash by staying at a friends and renting out your place for the weekend.

Photo via AOL

Share your space

Just as you can rent out your full apartment or house, you can also post a free room (or even just your couch!) on sites like Craigslist or Airbnb. This way you can split your living expenses -- and maybe even make a new friend!

Photo via Getty

Sell your body parts

Now here's a weird one: Donate your hair, breast milk, or even plasma for a profit. According to Grifols, if you're healthy and weigh above 110 pounds, you can earn up to $200 a month donating your plasma to life-saving medicine. 

Photo via Getty

Sign up to participate in medical tests and clinical trials. 

Universities constantly need volunteers to test new medicines and treatments -- and because the pool of willing participants is limited, there is typically a large compensation for being a guinea pig. 

Photo via Getty

Participate in a focus group

Companies and organizations will pay you to join a focus group. These can be conducted in person, online, or via phone. You will most likely be reimbursed in cash or gift cards -- plus, you often get to test out fun new products! 

Photo via Getty

Take online surveys

Similar to focus groups, you can get paid to give your time and insights on an online questionairre. Plus, you can do this from the comfort of your couch. 

Photo via Getty

Bank on your sperm

Although we don't necessarily recommend this option, there is a very high demand for healthy sperm donors. Keep in mind some of the obvious drawbacks, but sperm donation is non-invasive and highly compensated. 

Photo via Getty

Crowdfund your dreams

Crowdfunding allows you to raise monetary contributions from a large group of people who want to support your venture. Post your project or idea on a crowdfund site, like GoFundMe.com, and see the cash pile up.

Photo via Getty

Become a tutor

If you're qualified, post an ad online or on a community board to tutor children on their school courses or for the upcoming SATs.

Photo via Getty

Get a part-time job

Capitalize your free time (on the weekends or after work hours) by working a part-time job. A bartender, waiter, or Uber driver are all great options for an additional source of income -- and great tips! 

Photo via Getty

Resell tickets

Take this suggestion at your own risk: If you're staying within legal limits, buy tickets low and sell high as an effective way to source additional money. (Just make sure to check your state and local laws first!)

Photo via Getty

Rentafriend.com

You can sell anything on the internet these days... including your companionship! Get paid to go on a platonic outing for a few hours and enjoy your afternoon with a new friend. 

Photo via Getty

Rent out your parking spot

Make sure to check with your landlord first, but if you have the option to park your own car further away, lend or share your parking space or driveway for the hour, day, or even month! 

Photo via Getty

Keep a coin jar 

This one takes patience before a big pay out, but keep a spare jar or drawer for loose change that you usually toss anyway. It will keep it all in one place -- and those quarters do add up! 

Photo via Getty

Make something to sell 

If you have a knack for arts & crafts, create jewelry or other handmade gifts to sell on sites filled with other thrifty vendors like Etsy

Photo via Getty

Sell items online

This effective strategy requires low effort with a high return. Post photos of your used or non-used items on sites like eBay or Craigslist, and let the bidding begin! 

Photo via Getty

Have a yard sale

Sell clutter you've been meaning to get rid of right in your front yard. This simple tactic is convenient, and guarantees a wad of cash right to your pocket.  

Photo via Getty

Return past purchases

This tip may seem obvious, but is often overlooked: Take your recently-purchased items that are laying around back to the store for either store credit or a full refund. 

Photo via AP

Recycle scrap metal and cans

Collect cans and scrap metal out your own garbage, basement, and street and bring to your local recycler to exchange your findings for money.  

Photo via Getty

of
SEE ALL
BACK TO SLIDE
SHOW CAPTION +
HIDE CAPTION

The post Should You Help a Family Member in Debt? appeared first on SmartAsset Blog.

More from AOL.com:
How to spring clean your wallet
The 6 best money moves to make in your 20s
What to do immediately if you're audited

Read Full Story

People are Reading