'Bachelorette' star Andi Dorfman is writing a 'tell-all' book

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The Bachelorette isn't normally cited for its literary qualities, but one woman might change that: Andi Dorfman, star of the much-watched matchmaking show's 10th season, is penning a book called It's Not Okay that will detail her experiences in the wake of her successful Bachelorette stint. According to People, the book will allegedly possess a tongue-in-cheek quality, a sort of satirical self-help book for women who aspire to marry a man for his money, then write a book about it.

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THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1010' --Season Finale - After surviving shocking twists and turns and a journey filled with laughter, tears and love, Andi narrowed down the 25 bachelors to two fabulous guys - Josh and Nick. Josh is the type of man Andi has always dated in the past - handsome, athletic and playful - but Andi is plagued with a nagging doubt that he may be too good to be true. Her relationship with Nick is undeniably passionate and filled with an intensity she has never known, but she worries that it may be overwhelming. In this week's dramatic conclusion, Andi is absolutely torn between the two men and can envision a future with both, but time is running out, on the Season Finale of 'The Bachelorette,' airing MONDAY, JULY 28 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Javier Pesquera/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1010' --Season Finale - After surviving shocking twists and turns and a journey filled with laughter, tears and love, Andi narrowed down the 25 bachelors to two fabulous guys - Josh and Nick. Josh is the type of man Andi has always dated in the past - handsome, athletic and playful - but Andi is plagued with a nagging doubt that he may be too good to be true. Her relationship with Nick is undeniably passionate and filled with an intensity she has never known, but she worries that it may be overwhelming. In this week's dramatic conclusion, Andi is absolutely torn between the two men and can envision a future with both, but time is running out, on the Season Finale of 'The Bachelorette,' airing MONDAY, JULY 28 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Javier Pesquera/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1010' --Season Finale - After surviving shocking twists and turns and a journey filled with laughter, tears and love, Andi narrowed down the 25 bachelors to two fabulous guys - Josh and Nick. Josh is the type of man Andi has always dated in the past - handsome, athletic and playful - but Andi is plagued with a nagging doubt that he may be too good to be true. Her relationship with Nick is undeniably passionate and filled with an intensity she has never known, but she worries that it may be overwhelming. In this week's dramatic conclusion, Andi is absolutely torn between the two men and can envision a future with both, but time is running out, on the Season Finale of 'The Bachelorette,' airing MONDAY, JULY 28 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Javier Pesquera/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1010' --Season Finale - After surviving shocking twists and turns and a journey filled with laughter, tears and love, Andi narrowed down the 25 bachelors to two fabulous guys - Josh and Nick. Josh is the type of man Andi has always dated in the past - handsome, athletic and playful - but Andi is plagued with a nagging doubt that he may be too good to be true. Her relationship with Nick is undeniably passionate and filled with an intensity she has never known, but she worries that it may be overwhelming. In this week's dramatic conclusion, Andi is absolutely torn between the two men and can envision a future with both, but time is running out, on the Season Finale of 'The Bachelorette,' airing MONDAY, JULY 28 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Javier Pesquera/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1010' --Season Finale - After surviving shocking twists and turns and a journey filled with laughter, tears and love, Andi narrowed down the 25 bachelors to two fabulous guys - Josh and Nick. Josh is the type of man Andi has always dated in the past - handsome, athletic and playful - but Andi is plagued with a nagging doubt that he may be too good to be true. Her relationship with Nick is undeniably passionate and filled with an intensity she has never known, but she worries that it may be overwhelming. In this week's dramatic conclusion, Andi is absolutely torn between the two men and can envision a future with both, but time is running out, on the Season Finale of 'The Bachelorette,' airing MONDAY, JULY 28 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Javier Pesquera/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1008' - Andi heads south to Tampa to visit Josh's family. They enjoy a flirtatious afternoon playing baseball at his childhood field that was filled with future championship dreams. However, Andi learns that underneath that confidence Josh seems to exude, is pain from unfulfilled dreams. After five years of struggling, Josh quit professional sports to devote more time to his family - and in particular his younger brother, who now has been drafted into the NFL. Although she is touched by his commitment to his brother, Andi is concerned that he might not make the time necessary to make a relationship his number one priority. That anxiety deepens when she meets his family who is clearly dedicated to the pro football career of Josh's brother. Where does Andi fit into this family picture and Josh's life? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JULY 7 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Marc Edwards/ABC via Getty Images)
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THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1007' - Andi's one-on-one date with Josh is in the quaint town of Ghent. The two stroll hand-in-hand past historic landmarks and through the beautiful countryside. There is just one thing missing from this perfect date and without it, Andi is doubtful she will be making a trip to meet Josh's family. After exploring Ghent and lighting candles at St. Baafs Cathedral, the couple arrives at the magnificent Castle of the Counts. They are treated to an outdoor concert by popular country duo American Young to end the magical night, but will Andi be able to give Josh a hometown date? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 30 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Geert Vanden Wijngaert/ABC via Getty Images)
UNIVERSAL CITY, CA - JULY 14: Andi Dorfman visits 'Extra' at Universal Studios Hollywood on July 14, 2014 in Universal City, California. (Photo by Noel Vasquez/Getty Images)
UNIVERSAL CITY, CA - JULY 14: Andi Dorfman visits 'Extra' at Universal Studios Hollywood on July 14, 2014 in Universal City, California. (Photo by Noel Vasquez/Getty Images)
UNIVERSAL CITY, CA - MAY 20: Andi Dorfman visits 'Extra' at Universal Studios Hollywood on May 20, 2014 in Universal City, California. (Photo by Noel Vasquez/Getty Images)
LAS VEGAS, NV - MAY 18: TV personality Andi Dorfman attends the 2014 Billboard Music Awards at the MGM Grand Garden Arena on May 18, 2014 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by Bryan Steffy/Billboard Awards 2014/Getty Images for DCP)
LAS VEGAS, NV - MAY 18: Actress Danica McKellar (L) and TV personality Andi Dorfman speak onstage during the 2014 Billboard Music Awards at the MGM Grand Garden Arena on May 18, 2014 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by Kevin Winter/Billboard Awards 2014/Getty Images for DCP)
UNIVERSAL CITY, CA - JULY 14: Andi Dorfman visits 'Extra' at Universal Studios Hollywood on July 14, 2014 in Universal City, California. (Photo by Noel Vasquez/Getty Images)
LAS VEGAS, NV - MAY 18: Actress Danica McKellar (L) and TV personality Andi Dorfman speak onstage during the 2014 Billboard Music Awards at the MGM Grand Garden Arena on May 18, 2014 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by Kevin Winter/Billboard Awards 2014/Getty Images for DCP)
THE BACHELORETTE - Andi Dorfman, 26, a beautiful and successful woman, has it all at first glance - her loving family, her great friends, and even her dream job. But she realized there was something missing. So, last September, she put her busy life on hold to try and find love on 'The Bachelor.' She thought she had found her match, but in the end it was not meant to be, and Andi walked away from Juan Pablo. She did not, however, let that experience stop her desire to find her perfect soul mate. Andi will embark on her own journey to find love when she stars in the tenth edition of 'The Bachelorette,' which will premiere MONDAY, MAY 19 (9:30 - 11:00 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Craig Sjodin/ABC via Getty Images)
LAS VEGAS, CA- MAY 18: TV personality Andi Dorfman arrives at the 2014 Billboard Music Awards at the MGM Grand Garden Arena on May 18, 2014 in Las Vegas, Nevada.(Photo by Jeffrey Mayer/WireImage)
LAS VEGAS, NV - MAY 17: Television personalitites Chris Harrison (L) and Andi Dorfman arrive at the official pre-party for the 2014 Billboard Music Awards at Hyde Bellagio at the Bellagio on May 17, 2014 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by David Becker/Billboard Awards 2014/Getty Images for DCP)
THE BACHELORETTE - Andi Dorfman, 26, a beautiful and successful woman, has it all at first glance - her loving family, her great friends, and even her dream job. But she realized there was something missing. So, last September, she put her busy life on hold to try and find love on 'The Bachelor.' She thought she had found her match, but in the end it was not meant to be, and Andi walked away from Juan Pablo. She did not, however, let that experience stop her desire to find her perfect soul mate. Andi will embark on her own journey to find love when she stars in the tenth edition of 'The Bachelorette,' which will premiere MONDAY, MAY 19 (9:30 - 11:00 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Craig Sjodin/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - Andi Dorfman, 26, a beautiful and successful woman, has it all at first glance - her loving family, her great friends, and even her dream job. But she realized there was something missing. So, last September, she put her busy life on hold to try and find love on 'The Bachelor.' She thought she had found her match, but in the end it was not meant to be, and Andi walked away from Juan Pablo. She did not, however, let that experience stop her desire to find her perfect soul mate. Andi will embark on her own journey to find love when she stars in the tenth edition of 'The Bachelorette,' which will premiere MONDAY, MAY 19 (9:30 - 11:00 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Craig Sjodin/ABC via Getty Images)
GOOD MORNING AMERICA - Terry Crews, new host of 'Who Wants to be a Millionaire,' appears on GOOD MORNING AMERICA, 5/19/14, airing on the ABC Television Network. He delivers a rose to Bachelorette Andi Dorfman. (Photo by Fred Lee/ABC via Getty Images)
This image released by ABC shows Andi Dorfman, left, and Eric Hill on the premiere episode of "The Bachelorette," premiering Monday, May 19, 2014 on ABC. (AP Photo/ABC, Rick Rowell)
THE BACHELORETTE - Andi Dorfman, 26, a beautiful and successful woman, has it all at first glance - her loving family, her great friends, and even her dream job. But she realized there was something missing. So, last September, she put her busy life on hold to try and find love on 'The Bachelor.' She thought she had found her match, but in the end it was not meant to be, and Andi walked away from Juan Pablo. She did not, however, let that experience stop her desire to find her perfect soul mate. Andi will embark on her own journey to find love when she stars in the tenth edition of 'The Bachelorette,' which will premiere MONDAY, MAY 19 (9:30 - 11:00 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Craig Sjodin/ABC via Getty Images)
LAS VEGAS, NV - MAY 18: TV personality Andi Dorfman attends the 2014 Billboard Music Awards at the MGM Grand Garden Arena on May 18, 2014 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by Frazer Harrison/Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'The Men Tell All' - It's an exciting, unpredictable reunion viewers won't want to miss as the most memorable bachelors from this season return to confront each other and Andi one last time on national television to dish the dirt and tell their side of the story. Andi will come face-to-face with the men she sent home brokenhearted as they try to get some closure about their fractured relationships. with a first look at the explosive final days of Andi's journey to find love, on 'The Bachelorette: The Men Tell All,' MONDAY, JULY 21 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Todd Wawrychuk/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'The Men Tell All' - It's an exciting, unpredictable reunion viewers won't want to miss as the most memorable bachelors from this season return to confront each other and Andi one last time on national television to dish the dirt and tell their side of the story. Andi will come face-to-face with the men she sent home brokenhearted as they try to get some closure about their fractured relationships. with a first look at the explosive final days of Andi's journey to find love, on 'The Bachelorette: The Men Tell All,' MONDAY, JULY 21 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Todd Wawrychuk/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'The Men Tell All' - Ashley and J.P. paid a visit to update viewers on their exciting plans for the future, on 'The Bachelorette: The Men Tell All,' MONDAY, JULY 21 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Todd Wawrychuk/ABC via Getty Images)
JIMMY KIMMEL LIVE - Emmy Award-nominated 'Jimmy Kimmel Live' airs every weeknight (11:35 p.m. - 12:41 a.m., ET), packed with hilarious comedy bits and features a diverse lineup of guests including celebrities, athletes, musicians, comedians and humorous human interest subjects. The guests for MONDAY, MAY 19 included host George Stephanopoulos ('This Week with George Stephanopoulos' and 'Good Morning America'), The Bachelorette Andi Dorman ('The Bachelorette') and Musical Guest Charles Bradley. (Randy Holmes/ABC via Getty Images)
JIMMY KIMMEL LIVE - Emmy Award-nominated 'Jimmy Kimmel Live' airs every weeknight (11:35 p.m. - 12:41 a.m., ET), packed with hilarious comedy bits and features a diverse lineup of guests including celebrities, athletes, musicians, comedians and humorous human interest subjects. The guests for MONDAY, MAY 19 included host George Stephanopoulos ('This Week with George Stephanopoulos' and 'Good Morning America'), The Bachelorette Andi Dorman ('The Bachelorette') and Musical Guest Charles Bradley. (Randy Holmes/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1008' - Andi heads south to Tampa to visit Josh's family. They enjoy a flirtatious afternoon playing baseball at his childhood field that was filled with future championship dreams. However, Andi learns that underneath that confidence Josh seems to exude, is pain from unfulfilled dreams. After five years of struggling, Josh quit professional sports to devote more time to his family - and in particular his younger brother, who now has been drafted into the NFL. Although she is touched by his commitment to his brother, Andi is concerned that he might not make the time necessary to make a relationship his number one priority. That anxiety deepens when she meets his family who is clearly dedicated to the pro football career of Josh's brother. Where does Andi fit into this family picture and Josh's life? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JULY 7 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Marc Edwards/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1008' - Andi heads south to Tampa to visit Josh's family. They enjoy a flirtatious afternoon playing baseball at his childhood field that was filled with future championship dreams. However, Andi learns that underneath that confidence Josh seems to exude, is pain from unfulfilled dreams. After five years of struggling, Josh quit professional sports to devote more time to his family - and in particular his younger brother, who now has been drafted into the NFL. Although she is touched by his commitment to his brother, Andi is concerned that he might not make the time necessary to make a relationship his number one priority. That anxiety deepens when she meets his family who is clearly dedicated to the pro football career of Josh's brother. Where does Andi fit into this family picture and Josh's life? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JULY 7 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Marc Edwards/ABC via Getty Images)
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THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1008' - Andi journeys to Dallas, where Marcus has a special surprise waiting for her upon her arrival. Marcus' loving and supportive family is anxious for Andi to join them. For her part, Andi is wondering if she will be able to catch up with the deep feelings Marcus has showed her, making it clear that she is the love of his life, on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JULY 7 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Bill Matlock/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1008' - Andi journeys to Dallas, where Marcus has a special surprise waiting for her upon her arrival. Marcus' loving and supportive family is anxious for Andi to join them. For her part, Andi is wondering if she will be able to catch up with the deep feelings Marcus has showed her, making it clear that she is the love of his life, on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JULY 7 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Bill Matlock/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1008' - Andi travels to Arlington, Iowa -- population less than 800 -- to visit Chris, the handsome and extremely successful farmer whose charming manner has proved an aphrodisiac to the Bachelorette. Andi is enchanted by the serene beauty of the Iowa countryside and the pair enjoy a tractor ride and a romantic picnic in the middle of a cornfield. There, they discuss what their future might be like together. Chris has a wonderful surprise for Andi to confirm his feelings for her. This bachelor's fun-loving family envelopes her with small town hospitality, sharing a laugh-filled evening of childhood memories and a game of hide and seek. Chris' family is more than Andi could have hoped for, but what does she really feel about swapping city life for country living? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JULY 7 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Matthew Putney/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1008' - Andi travels to Arlington, Iowa -- population less than 800 -- to visit Chris, the handsome and extremely successful farmer whose charming manner has proved an aphrodisiac to the Bachelorette. Andi is enchanted by the serene beauty of the Iowa countryside and the pair enjoy a tractor ride and a romantic picnic in the middle of a cornfield. There, they discuss what their future might be like together. Chris has a wonderful surprise for Andi to confirm his feelings for her. This bachelor's fun-loving family envelopes her with small town hospitality, sharing a laugh-filled evening of childhood memories and a game of hide and seek. Chris' family is more than Andi could have hoped for, but what does she really feel about swapping city life for country living? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JULY 7 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Matthew Putney/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1008' - Andi starts her hometown visits in Milwaukee where Nick, who has been one of her favorites since the first night, treats her to a true taste of the city, complete with a tour of a brewery, sipping a special beer named after the couple and some energetic polka dancing. But the real test will be when Andi is introduced to Nick's very large family - all 17 of them. Nick is so devoted to his parents and 10 siblings that he is intent on getting their approval before he tells Andi he loves her and wants to spend a lifetime with her. She is even grilled by Nick's nine-year-old sister. Will Andi be able to secure the approval of all these family members? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JULY 7 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by John O'Hara/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1007' - Andi's one-on-one date with Josh is in the quaint town of Ghent. The two stroll hand-in-hand past historic landmarks and through the beautiful countryside. There is just one thing missing from this perfect date and without it, Andi is doubtful she will be making a trip to meet Josh's family. After exploring Ghent and lighting candles at St. Baafs Cathedral, the couple arrives at the magnificent Castle of the Counts. They are treated to an outdoor concert by popular country duo American Young to end the magical night, but will Andi be able to give Josh a hometown date? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 30 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Geert Vanden Wijngaert/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1007' - Andi's one-on-one date with Josh is in the quaint town of Ghent. The two stroll hand-in-hand past historic landmarks and through the beautiful countryside. There is just one thing missing from this perfect date and without it, Andi is doubtful she will be making a trip to meet Josh's family. After exploring Ghent and lighting candles at St. Baafs Cathedral, the couple arrives at the magnificent Castle of the Counts. They are treated to an outdoor concert by popular country duo American Young to end the magical night, but will Andi be able to give Josh a hometown date? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 30 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Geert Vanden Wijngaert/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1006' - Andi pulls her first surprise on the streets of Venice, starting her first one-on-one date immediately - with Nick. The shocked suitor needs to convince Andi that he is not the arrogant man that the other bachelors say he is. The date is the very essence of romance with the couple strolling the fabled city hand in hand, taking a gondola ride along the waterways, touring Venice's historic sites, including St. Mark's Square and the Bridge of Sighs. But does their undeniable chemistry mean their relationship is back on track? That night, Andi, dressed in a stunning full-length gown and wearing an elegant mask, meets Nick outside the Palace Ca Zenobio, a palace where royalty would hold grand masquerade balls. But the beautiful surroundings don't stop Andi from addressing her date's unattractive attitude and behavior on group dates and his cocky reputation in the house. Will Andi still surprise Nick with a private masquerade ball or will what he says change her mind? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 23 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Barbara Zanon/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1006' - Andi pulls her first surprise on the streets of Venice, starting her first one-on-one date immediately - with Nick. The shocked suitor needs to convince Andi that he is not the arrogant man that the other bachelors say he is. The date is the very essence of romance with the couple strolling the fabled city hand in hand, taking a gondola ride along the waterways, touring Venice's historic sites, including St. Mark's Square and the Bridge of Sighs. But does their undeniable chemistry mean their relationship is back on track? That night, Andi, dressed in a stunning full-length gown and wearing an elegant mask, meets Nick outside the Palace Ca Zenobio, a palace where royalty would hold grand masquerade balls. But the beautiful surroundings don't stop Andi from addressing her date's unattractive attitude and behavior on group dates and his cocky reputation in the house. Will Andi still surprise Nick with a private masquerade ball or will what he says change her mind? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 23 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Barbara Zanon/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1007' - Andi's one-on-one date with Josh is in the quaint town of Ghent. The two stroll hand-in-hand past historic landmarks and through the beautiful countryside. There is just one thing missing from this perfect date and without it, Andi is doubtful she will be making a trip to meet Josh's family. After exploring Ghent and lighting candles at St. Baafs Cathedral, the couple arrives at the magnificent Castle of the Counts. They are treated to an outdoor concert by popular country duo American Young to end the magical night, but will Andi be able to give Josh a hometown date? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 30 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Geert Vanden Wijngaert/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1005' - 'No talking aloud' is the rule of the day when Andi takes nine men to a professional mime for him to coach them on his silent art. Then, the bachelors test their skills with the French public. What will they think of these Marcel Marceau wanna-bes? As usual, the guys try their best - except for one man who has an attitude problem. At the after party, one arrogant bachelor is confronted about his overly-confident bragging that he is 'frontrunner,' and Marquel calls out another man who he believes has made some reprehensible comments about him. J J steals Andi away from the drama for a fun romantic ride on a Ferris wheel overlooking the city's glittering lights. But will all the tension make Andi change her mind about handing out a rose? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 16 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Patrick Aventurier/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1005' - 'No talking aloud' is the rule of the day when Andi takes nine men to a professional mime for him to coach them on his silent art. Then, the bachelors test their skills with the French public. What will they think of these Marcel Marceau wanna-bes? As usual, the guys try their best - except for one man who has an attitude problem. At the after party, one arrogant bachelor is confronted about his overly-confident bragging that he is 'frontrunner,' and Marquel calls out another man who he believes has made some reprehensible comments about him. J J steals Andi away from the drama for a fun romantic ride on a Ferris wheel overlooking the city's glittering lights. But will all the tension make Andi change her mind about handing out a rose? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 16 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Patrick Aventurier/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1005' - 'No talking aloud' is the rule of the day when Andi takes nine men to a professional mime for him to coach them on his silent art. Then, the bachelors test their skills with the French public. What will they think of these Marcel Marceau wanna-bes? As usual, the guys try their best - except for one man who has an attitude problem. At the after party, one arrogant bachelor is confronted about his overly-confident bragging that he is 'frontrunner,' and Marquel calls out another man who he believes has made some reprehensible comments about him. J J steals Andi away from the drama for a fun romantic ride on a Ferris wheel overlooking the city's glittering lights. But will all the tension make Andi change her mind about handing out a rose? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 16 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Patrick Aventurier/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1003' - Tall, good-looking J J joins Andi on an unusual date to discover what it means for 'love to be timeless.' The couple ages 50 years with the help of Hollywood make-up artists and spends the day looking elderly, but remaining young at heart, as they interact with people in the street. Will Andi see her future with this 'old soul?' - on 'The Bachelorette,' SUNDAY, JUNE 1 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by David Moir/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1004' - Eleven men are eager to show off their basketball skills when they arrive at the Mohegan Sun arena, until Andi explains that they will compete against some of the WNBA's best - superstars Swin Cash, Tamika Catchings, Elena Delle Donne, Lindsey Harding and Nneka Ogwumike. But this is no slam dunk for Andi's suitors, so Andi changes it up and has the bachelors divide into two teams to battle one another. However, only the winning team will attend an after party with Andi. One man takes some alone time with the Bachelorette to make sure that they are on the same page, but will the date rose go to the best athlete on court or the most romantic suitor off court? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 2 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Mark Brendel/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1004' - Eleven men are eager to show off their basketball skills when they arrive at the Mohegan Sun arena, until Andi explains that they will compete against some of the WNBA's best - superstars Swin Cash, Tamika Catchings, Elena Delle Donne, Lindsey Harding and Nneka Ogwumike. But this is no slam dunk for Andi's suitors, so Andi changes it up and has the bachelors divide into two teams to battle one another. However, only the winning team will attend an after party with Andi. One man takes some alone time with the Bachelorette to make sure that they are on the same page, but will the date rose go to the best athlete on court or the most romantic suitor off court? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, JUNE 2 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Mark Brendel/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1003' - Twelve unsuspecting men get the thrill of their lives when they realize that they will be singing with the award-winning R&B group 'Boyz II Men,' harmonizing with them on one of their biggest hits, 'I'll Make Love to You.' The bachelors hit more than a few sour notes while rehearsing with the singers and then are left reeling when they are told they will be singing live on stage at one of the group's concerts. One guy has perfect pitch, but the others are trying to calm their nerves. A rose is still up for grabs at the group date after party and the men turn up the heat. Andi gets a first kiss from one man reaffirming their connection and sparks begin to fly with another passionate bachelor, on 'The Bachelorette,' SUNDAY, JUNE 1 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by David Moir/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1003' - Twelve unsuspecting men get the thrill of their lives when they realize that they will be singing with the award-winning R&B group 'Boyz II Men,' harmonizing with them on one of their biggest hits, 'I'll Make Love to You.' The bachelors hit more than a few sour notes while rehearsing with the singers and then are left reeling when they are told they will be singing live on stage at one of the group's concerts. One guy has perfect pitch, but the others are trying to calm their nerves. A rose is still up for grabs at the group date after party and the men turn up the heat. Andi gets a first kiss from one man reaffirming their connection and sparks begin to fly with another passionate bachelor, on 'The Bachelorette,' SUNDAY, JUNE 1 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by David Moir/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1002' - Andi treats Chris to a glamorous day of horse racing at Santa Anita Park, as the couple gets decked out in outfits reminiscent of the 1940's. They settle into their VIP seats with mint juleps and binoculars ready to see if their bets pay off. That night, they enjoy a special evening, slow dancing to the songs of 'This Wild Life' during a private concert. Does this mean their relationship is on a fast track? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, MAY 26 (8:00-10:01p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Todd Wawrychuk/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1003' - Twelve unsuspecting men get the thrill of their lives when they realize that they will be singing with the award-winning R&B group 'Boyz II Men,' harmonizing with them on one of their biggest hits, 'I'll Make Love to You.' The bachelors hit more than a few sour notes while rehearsing with the singers and then are left reeling when they are told they will be singing live on stage at one of the group's concerts. One guy has perfect pitch, but the others are trying to calm their nerves. A rose is still up for grabs at the group date after party and the men turn up the heat. Andi gets a first kiss from one man reaffirming their connection and sparks begin to fly with another passionate bachelor, on 'The Bachelorette,' SUNDAY, JUNE 1 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by David Moir/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1002' - Andi treats Chris to a glamorous day of horse racing at Santa Anita Park, as the couple gets decked out in outfits reminiscent of the 1940's. They settle into their VIP seats with mint juleps and binoculars ready to see if their bets pay off. That night, they enjoy a special evening, slow dancing to the songs of 'This Wild Life' during a private concert. Does this mean their relationship is on a fast track? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, MAY 26 (8:00-10:01p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Todd Wawrychuk/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1002' - Andi treats Chris to a glamorous day of horse racing at Santa Anita Park, as the couple gets decked out in outfits reminiscent of the 1940's. They settle into their VIP seats with mint juleps and binoculars ready to see if their bets pay off. That night, they enjoy a special evening, slow dancing to the songs of 'This Wild Life' during a private concert. Does this mean their relationship is on a fast track? - on 'The Bachelorette,' MONDAY, MAY 26 (8:00-10:01p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Todd Wawrychuk/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1001' - In the premiere episode, 25 eligible men come from all over to try and win Andi's heart. Her nervousness melts away as soon as she begins to meet the bachelors, who are just as anxious and excited as she is, on the tenth edition of the female version of ABC's popular romance reality series, 'The Bachelorette,' premiering on MONDAY, MAY 19 at a special time (9:30-11:00 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Rick Rowell/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1001' - In the premiere episode, 25 eligible men come from all over to try and win Andi's heart. Her nervousness melts away as soon as she begins to meet the bachelors, who are just as anxious and excited as she is, on the tenth edition of the female version of ABC's popular romance reality series, 'The Bachelorette,' premiering on MONDAY, MAY 19 at a special time (9:30-11:00 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Rick Rowell/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1001' - In the premiere episode, 25 eligible men come from all over to try and win Andi's heart. Her nervousness melts away as soon as she begins to meet the bachelors, who are just as anxious and excited as she is, on the tenth edition of the female version of ABC's popular romance reality series, 'The Bachelorette,' premiering on MONDAY, MAY 19 at a special time (9:30-11:00 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Rick Rowell/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1001' - In the premiere episode, 25 eligible men come from all over to try and win Andi's heart. Her nervousness melts away as soon as she begins to meet the bachelors, who are just as anxious and excited as she is, on the tenth edition of the female version of ABC's popular romance reality series, 'The Bachelorette,' premiering on MONDAY, MAY 19 at a special time (9:30-11:00 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Rick Rowell/ABC via Getty Images)
THE BACHELORETTE - 'Episode 1001' - In the premiere episode, 25 eligible men come from all over to try and win Andi's heart. Her nervousness melts away as soon as she begins to meet the bachelors, who are just as anxious and excited as she is, on the tenth edition of the female version of ABC's popular romance reality series, 'The Bachelorette,' premiering on MONDAY, MAY 19 at a special time (9:30-11:00 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Rick Rowell/ABC via Getty Images)
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"I didn't share a lot of stuff and I feel like we, as women, don't share a lot of bad emotions that are associated with breakups and this book kind of defies that," she told People. "It's like, you know what? I did it. I did every good, bad, ugly, sad, crazy, psychotic thing that women do. I'm like, here it is — we all do it. I am proof that we all do it."

Dorfman got engaged to Josh Murray in May of last year. They separated in January of this year. You can read all of her relationship advice in Spring of next year.

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THE BACHELORETTE - ABC's hit romantic reality series, 'The Bachelorette,' kicks off its 11th season continuing the surprises of this season's 'Bachelor' with the biggest one of all: there will be two Bachelorettes. One is Kaitlyn, the gorgeous, fun-loving, warm-hearted, but irreverent firecracker who let down her guard only to have her heart crushed. Who will the men prefer? Eventually, only one woman will be left to hand out the final rose. 'The Bachelorette' returns to ABC, premiering MONDAY, MAY 18 (9:00-11:00 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Craig Sjodin/ABC via Getty Images) KAITLYN BRISTOWE
America fell in love with two very different but dynamic Bachelorettes last season - Britt Nilsson and Kaitlyn Bristowe. It was hard to choose between the beautiful, charming Britt and the gorgeous, fun-loving, wise cracking Kaitlyn. So now, 25 eligible bachelors will choose between these two amazing women. For the first time in franchise history there will be two Bachelorettes. Chris Soules sent both ladies home broken hearted, but now with another chance at love, both women are ready to take a journey they hope will wind up happily ever after, on 'The Bachelorette' two-night premiere event, MONDAY, MAY 18 (9:01-11:00 p.m., ET) and TUESDAY, MAY 19 (8:00-9:00 p.m, ET), on the ABC Television Network. (Photo by Rick Rowell/ABC via Getty Images) BEN H., KAITLYN BRISTOWE
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