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Picking Sam, Rams welcome first openly gay player


NEW YORK (AP) -- Michael Sam waited and waited. Hours passed, rounds came and went, and eventually, there were only eight more picks left on the third and final day of the NFL draft.

For just a moment, it looked as if his chance of being picked by a pro team and becoming the league's first openly gay player might take a detour. Or at least be delayed.

The call finally came in Saturday from the St. Louis Rams, the team right down the road from where Sam played his college ball at the University of Missouri.

Sam was selected in the seventh and final round and admitted it was a frustrating wait. He said teams that passed on him chickened out and he should have been drafted sooner.

"From last season alone, I should've been in the first three rounds. SEC Defensive Player of the Year, All-American," Sam said. He stopped short of directly saying his stock dropped in the draft because he came out.

Michael Sam's Emotional Reaction

"You know what, who knows? Who knows? Only the people who sit in the war room know," he said. "They saw Michael Sam, day after day they scratched it off the board. That was their loss. But St. Louis kept me on that board. And you know what I feel like I'm a (Jadeveon) Clowney, a first draft pick. I'm proud of where I am now."

Sam came out as gay in media interviews earlier this year. His team and coaches knew his secret and kept it for his final college season. He went on to have the best year of his career: He was the co-defensive player of the year in the nation's best college football conference and had 11.5 sacks.

The pick came after several rounds of suspense. The first round of the day, No. 4 overall, came and went, no Sam. Then the fifth and sixth, and finally, the day was down to just a handful of picks.

When Mike Kensil, the NFL's vice president of game operations, walked to the podium at Radio City Music Hall in the draft's final minutes to announce the Rams' second-to-last pick, the crowd got a sense something was up. Very few of the last day picks were announced at the podium. Twitter lit up with suggestions the Rams were about to make news.

When Kensil said: "The St. Louis Rams select ... Michael Sam..." the fans gave a hearty cheer, chanting "Yes! Yes! Yes!" and "Michael Sam!"

Sam was in San Diego watching with friends and family at the home of his agent, Joe Barkett of Empire Athletes. ESPN and the NFL Network had cameras there and showed Sam's reaction.

Sam was on the phone bending over, with his boyfriend hugging him and rubbing his left bicep. When Sam got off the phone, the tears started. He gave his boyfriend a big kiss and a long hug as he cried and his eyes reddened. After, they shared cake - and another kiss.

"Thank you to the St. Louis Rams and the whole city of St. Louis. I'm using every once of this to achieve greatness!!" Sam tweeted with a frenzied typo moments after he was picked, with a picture of himself wearing a Rams cap and a pink polo shirt.

The 6-foot-2, 255-pound Sam was considered a mid-to-late round pick, far from a sure thing to be drafted. He played defensive end in college, but he's short for that position in the NFL and slower than most outside linebackers, the position he'll need to transition to at the professional level.

He was taken with the 249th overall pick out of 256. Players from Marist, Maine and McGill University in Canada were selected before Sam.

"In the world of diversity we live in now, I'm honored to be a part of this," Rams coach Jeff Fisher said during an interview on ESPN.

The NFL had no comment on Sam being drafted.

The impact of Sam's selection goes far beyond football. At a time when gay marriage is gaining acceptance among Americans, Sam's entry into the NFL is a huge step toward the integration of gay men into professional team sports. Pro sports have in many ways lagged behind the rest of society in acceptance.

"Michael Sam wouldn't have been drafted five years ago," said former Viking punter Chris Kluwe, who has accused Minnesota of cutting him in part because of his vocal support for gay rights.

In the last year, NBA veteran Jason Collins has come out publicly as gay, and is now playing for the Brooklyn Nets. Collins said before the Nets' playoff game against the Heat that he was watching the draft and texted Sam after he was picked.

"It's a great day for Michael and his family and for the NFL," Collins said.

Publicly, most people in and related to the NFL have been supportive of Sam. NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell has said Sam would be welcome in the league and judged solely on his ability to play. A few wondered whether teams would be reluctant to draft Sam because of all the media attention that would come with it.

Fair or not, the NFL - coming off a season in which a bullying scandal involving players on the Miami Dolphins was one of the biggest stories in sports - was looking at a possible public relations hit if Sam was not drafted. He would likely have been signed as a free agent and given a chance to make a team in training camp, but to many it would have looked as if he was being rejected.

Now that he's there, it could be seen as an opportunity for the NFL to show that crass locker room culture is not as prevalent as it might have looked to those who followed the embarrassing Dolphins scandal. But all the reaction to Sam's news wasn't positive from the league.

Miami safety Don Jones posted a one-word tweet, "Horrible" shortly after Sam was drafted. It was later taken down. The team's general manager said he was aware, and was disappointed.

Wade Davis, a gay former NFL player who is now the executive director of the gay rights advocacy group "You Can Play," said that Sam only needs to do his job to have an impact beyond the field.

"Michael Sam doesn't have to be a vocal advocate (for gay rights)," Davis said. "His visibility is his advocacy."


Follow AP College Football Writer Ralph D. Russo atWWW.TWITTER.COM/RALPHDRUSSOAP


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Mr Peters May 12 2014 at 12:53 PM

ESPN airing the reaction between Sam and his boy friend was meant to entice reaction ... the network used him and his private moment with family and friends to create MORE controversy out there in Homophobia land .. SHAME on ESPN for fanning the flames . We expected more from them than this .

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tmoccia Mr Peters May 12 2014 at 12:55 PM

You are correct.

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yourcommentshavebeenbanned May 12 2014 at 12:45 PM

His boyfriend nicknamed Sam "Fudge"..
Does anyone know why?

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Nancy yourcommentshavebeenbanned May 12 2014 at 12:50 PM


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MRFOOT....LABAS! May 12 2014 at 12:25 PM


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jlbcjb May 12 2014 at 12:18 PM

And this is America is where we are at - so when your children cant sleep at night this will be one of the contributing factors - we keep glorifying develi worship and turns our heads to the sand on morality -

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tmoccia jlbcjb May 12 2014 at 12:19 PM

Yeah, because gay people are such a big threat. Get a life.

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Silverfoxylassy tmoccia May 12 2014 at 1:50 PM

Only to themselves. We all make a choice. Life in Eternity, or Life here. God blesses us when we do not submit to accepting sins of others, and if we are denied life because of our devotion to God, then we will be rewarded in Eternity. We all have a right to chose where we want to really live.

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robtucan May 12 2014 at 12:04 PM

Oh Yea, you are SO great. These self absorbed people are so sad. Me, Me and only Me.

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l_helms May 12 2014 at 1:28 PM

This is the most sinful and disgusting thing I have ever heard of. What has happened to America?

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tmoccia l_helms May 12 2014 at 1:32 PM

Oh the horrors. Whatever.

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ibrndn10 l_helms May 12 2014 at 1:48 PM

More sinful that eating shell fish or wearing a poly cotton blend? STFU

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Marcie May 12 2014 at 1:14 PM

The kiss, description of his boyfriend, and their crying was unnecessary. I have nothing against gay people, but seeing them kissing like that is offensive/shocking. If gays want to be accepted, they could downplay their sex/emotional life in public. Have some respect for people's sensibilities.

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tmoccia Marcie May 12 2014 at 1:28 PM

Wow. Just wow.

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ibrndn10 Marcie May 12 2014 at 2:02 PM

Are you serious? What you are saying is that PDA is only acceptable for straight people? Your argument is flawed. you're asking that gay people hide in order to be accepted. NO. What you are asking is for gay people to be out of sight, out of mind. Get a life outside of sunday school. geesh.

PS......Plenty of players that are straight have cried when they got the same exact call.

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....MR. FARMER May 12 2014 at 1:06 PM

Ewwwww.....that picture made me sick at my stomach ! ! ! I'd hate to guess as to what all the white "stuff " the two of them were smearing all over each other's face ! ! ! ! THEY'RE HERE....THEY'RE QUEER AND ONE'S IN THE N.F.L. ! ! ! DON'T BE BENDIN' OVER FOR TH' SOAP AND WEAR A CUP FOR PROTECTION.....HELL, YOU MIGHT NEED SOMETHING TO PREVENT ANY ANAL PROBIN' ! ! ! ! OH WELL....THERE'S ALWAYS GOLF, TIGER AIN'T GAY.

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LACASSE ....MR. FARMER May 12 2014 at 1:17 PM


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ibrndn10 ....MR. FARMER May 12 2014 at 2:23 PM

That stuff is cake. you dunce.

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Pete May 12 2014 at 1:30 PM

It was inappropriate and disgusting

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l_helms Pete May 12 2014 at 1:33 PM

Yeah. Why do they have to broadcast this? They want to make gays look so good when it actually goes against american morals and values. Can I just say Yuck.

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Col. Whit May 12 2014 at 12:57 PM


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tmoccia Col. Whit May 12 2014 at 12:57 PM

As are you and your hate.

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