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Iran mother recalls act of mercy for son's killer

By AMIR VAHDAT and ADAM SCHRECK
Associated Press

ROYAN, Iran (AP) -- Her son's killer stood on a chair on the gallows, his hands shackled, the noose around his neck. Hundreds crowded outside the jailhouse in a northern Iranian town to see if the mother, Samereh Alinejad, would exercise her right to kick the chair out from under him to let him hang.

But after seven years of dreaming of revenge - up to the last moment she held the killer's life in her hands - Alinejad pardoned Bilal Gheisari. That act has made her a hero in her hometown, Royan, on the shores of the Caspian Sea, where banners in the streets commend her family's mercy. Two weeks after the dramatic scene at the gallows, well-wishers still pass by her home to praise her and her husband

Alinejad told The Associated Press during a visit to her home that retribution had been her only thought ever since her 17-year-old son Abdollah was killed seven years ago in a street brawl when Gheisari's knife sliced through his neck.

"My world collapsed the day I heard about my son's death," she said, dressed in a black with a black scarf covering her hair. "If I pardoned Bilal and saved him from death, how would I be able to live anymore?"

The thought of Gheisari's family's happiness at his eventually walking out of jail a free man ate her up inside. "I told my husband if he were spared death, I would die," she said.

Families of murder victims in Iran and some other Muslim countries are often faced with the final word choice over whether convicted killers live or die. The Islamic law concept of "qisas" - an "an eye for an eye" provision - gives them the chance to oversee the killer's execution.

They also have the option to have mercy - often in return for blood money payments of $35,000 or more. Forgoing qisas is seen as an act of charity and a chance to atone for one's sins. In standard murder cases in Iran, it is a choice left up to victim's family, not the government.

Alinejad's pardon was not the first time a family decided to forgo retribution at the last minute. But a series of photos by an Iranian photographer for the ISNA news agency at the gallows in the nearby town of Nour on April 15 offered a dramatic window into what would have been Gheisari's last moments.

Abdolghani Hosseinzadeh, the murdered teen's father, was something of a local celebrity as a well-known former soccer player who now coaches children in the game. Both his son and his son's killer, who was a couple years older, trained at the Derakhshan Soccer School where he teaches.

Leading up to the day of execution, neighbors, activists and even a popular TV program had appealed to the couple to spare Gheisari.

Kamyar Salari, the manager of a local non-profit that provides support to prisoners, said he told the couple, "You have a right to retribution. However, when time passes, usually the level of anger drops."

"I asked them to give forgiveness some thought," he told the AP. "He is young and ... he just made a mistake."

None of the appeals seemed to work.

Further deepening the family's sense of loss, their other son, Amir, died years earlier in an accident when he was riding his bicycle and was hit by a motorcycle - and Gheisari was one of two boys on the motorcycle.

Iranian Mother Halts Execution Of Son's Killer

On April 15, Alinejad walked slowly toward the gallows, with Gheisari's family among the crowd of onlookers. A blindfolded Gheisari, weeping, begged her one last time.

"Forgive me, Aunt Maryam," he pleaded, addressing Alinejad by the nickname she is widely known by in the community. "Show your mercy."

Alinejad moved in close, face to face, with Gheisari.

"Did you have mercy on us? Did you show mercy to my son?" she demanded. "You have taken happiness away from us. Why should I have mercy toward you?"

Alinejad stared angrily him. Then she slapped him across the face. She and her husband slipped the noose off his neck, and with that move, Gheisari's death sentence had been commuted.

Some in the crowd applauded. Others stood silently shocked.

Alinejad's decision was widely publicized by the semi-official ISNA news agency, suggesting that Iranian authorities hope to encourage more victims' families to consider choosing mercy over retribution. In a report on the Iranian judiciary's website Tuesday, state prosecutor Gholam Hossein Mohseni Ejehi described accepting blood money for a stay of execution as a humane practice. He said it spared the lives of 358 convicts in the last Iranian calendar year, which ended in March.

Iran has come under sharp criticism by international rights groups for its high rate of executions. Amnesty International says 369 people were publicly put to death in the Islamic Republic last year. The majority of executions are for drug smuggling, which Iranian officials say reflects the large quantities of opium trafficked through Iran from Afghanistan to Europe.

Gheisari's sentence was changed to 12 years in prison, half of which he has served already.

Alinejad and her husband, who have a young daughter, have refused to accept blood money that benefactors had collected on Gheisari's behalf, proposing it go instead to charity and improving local soccer schools.

Alinejad said she feels relief.

"This slap made me feel as if all the blood that had accumulated in my heart over the years suddenly burst and poured out. I became peaceful," Alinejad said. "I do not think about revenge anymore."

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Schreck reported from Dubai, United Arab Emirates.

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MSM30054 May 02 2014 at 11:24 AM

dont expect any mercy christians when they catch up with you

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millicent May 01 2014 at 11:04 PM

This is mercy personified , no blood money, true forgiveness.

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Karissa May 02 2014 at 12:25 AM

This young man was involved in the death of not one, but two, of this woman's sons. I cannot say that I would not have kicked the chair out from under him if I were in her shoes. In fact, if he had been involved in the death of two mof my children, I think there's a high chance he would have been swinging like a pendulum before he had the chance to finish his sentence begging for mercy. This woman's act of mercy is something that is just amazing.

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thedukeantiques May 02 2014 at 12:28 AM

g\God bless them and their mercy, I am in tears

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Valerie thedukeantiques May 02 2014 at 11:27 AM

Same here regarding the tears. Just made me realize to think beyond the anger. I'm glad she slapped him though with all her might! I would have at least done that also, or kicked him really hard in a place he'd remember for a long time!

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Debbie May 02 2014 at 1:23 AM

Being a Christian but also having a child taken from me by murder...I would have a really hard time in choosing. I really don't know what I would do because I am also human. That mother is really awsome. I commend her for her act of forgivness. I only hope that if it ever becomes me that I would be as commendable as she has been.

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Valerie Debbie May 02 2014 at 11:25 AM

My prayers for you now and in the future. From your comment, I think you've already decided to be as commendable. Peace to you and your family.

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oujoou May 02 2014 at 3:14 AM

Wow. Dramatic photos. As they are about to hang him . . . his face is anything BUT a murderer's. It's beautiful how much he wants life. I'm not a morbid person . . . but I like to see how people express themselves in other areas of the world after tragedies and during intense intense events. THIS is amazing. The young man is begging for his life. I think that's why he looks so compelling. He's not resigned to dying and hating everyone around him. He and that mother who spared him have a deep connection. Over the years . . . she'll realize how much like her son . . .this unfortunate 'murderer' becomes. :(

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proteus12544 May 02 2014 at 4:13 AM

If I understand this right this man was involved in the deaths of both of this woman's sons. Wow I cannot image how hard it was to not kick that chair. I don't know if I could have shown that kind of mercy. Usually it seems things that happen in places like Iran are always very backwards. This time though it seems they got it right. I am surprised that the mother and not the father was the one to make the decision and also was allowed to hit the man. Women have very little rights or it seems worth for the most part. I hope this Mother can have peace in her heart knowing she saved a family from going thru the pain that she did. Again, I don't know if I would be able to do the same thing in the same situation.

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corvairscott May 02 2014 at 4:48 AM

She's stupid, the guy killed both of her sons. He had no mercy.

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airamrka corvairscott May 02 2014 at 7:16 AM

Did you bother to read the story? The "guy" killed one son and it was in a street fight.

"their other son, Amir, died years earlier in an accident when he was riding his bicycle and was hit by a motorcycle - and Gheisari was one of two boys on the motorcycle." You support death in the case of an accident?

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clarkkentdlyplnt airamrka May 02 2014 at 8:20 AM

I don't believe that "accident" crap. A prank may have had an unexpected out come, but this man has been a thug all his life. I do commend her show of mercy though. It's something he will never receive again and when he is freed he will have little choice to change.

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Valerie corvairscott May 02 2014 at 11:22 AM

Try reading before making such stupid comments!! He didn't kill her other son..this man was riding on a motorcycle with someone else that hit her other son. It never stated he was the operator of that mc. You are the stupid one!

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sb70simple May 02 2014 at 7:00 AM

A new beginning of forgiveness that has being thought for centuries and finally has given live and peace to two families and perhaps we all must learn to do this and I hope the man has a change of heart and value the gift of life that he has being granted again. Perhaps he can see the value of a life not only his but others.

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plewdawg May 02 2014 at 7:27 AM

I think it should be decided by the victims family. Here, it was her choice.

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