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Some countries get Obama, but want his wife, too

WASHINGTON (AP) -- When President Barack Obama travels abroad, sometimes it's not enough for just the leader of the free world to show up. People in other countries want the first lady, too.

But Michelle Obama won't join her husband when he heads to Asia next week, and her absence is likely to sting, especially in image-conscious Japan. It's the first of four countries on Obama's travel schedule and one of two that are welcoming him with official state visits.

"If Madame Obama could have come, it would have been better. But the most important thing is that President Obama accepted this is a state visit," said Matake Kamiya, a professor of international relations at the National Defense University in Yokosuka, near Tokyo. "From an expert point of view, it's sort of worrisome why Madame Obama isn't coming."

The fact that Mrs. Obama recently spent a week in China with her mother, Marian Robinson, and daughters Malia and Sasha also is sure to be noted in Japan, a close U.S. ally and China rival. But the first lady's communications director, Maria Cristina Gonzalez Noguera, said it was not expected that Mrs. Obama would join the president on a return trip to Asia so soon, having returned less than a month ago.

"When it comes to international travel, the first lady has always chosen her trips based on what's best for her family," Noguera said in an emailed statement.

The last U.S. first lady who did not join her husband on a state visit to Japan was Gerald Ford's wife, Betty. Ford became the first sitting American president to visit Japan when he arrived in November 1974, a few months after he took over the office from Richard M. Nixon.

Anita McBride, who was chief of staff to Laura Bush, said having the president's wife on his overseas trips is always welcomed - by both the White House and the host country - because she can carry out a different type of diplomacy.

"They can focus on different things and, between the two of them, really spread a lot of goodwill," said McBride, who heads a first ladies' project at American University.

When Mrs. Obama does travel with the president, she often gets as much - and occasionally more - local media coverage.

Last year in Northern Ireland, where Obama and other major world leaders gathered for an international summit, she was "the Obama" who got top billing in the local newspaper. The front page of the Belfast Telegraph featured a head-to-toe photograph of Mrs. Obama with the headline, "How Michelle (and a bit of trouble with her fringe) stole the show." The headline referred to the first lady's debut of her longer bangs that swept in front of her eyes during a speech to students.

Obama and the summit host, British Prime Minister David Cameron, made the front page, too, but in separate and smaller photos.

Mrs. Obama's China visit last month was partly seen as making up for her not accompanying the president to California last year for the visit by President Xi Jinping and his wife, Peng Liyuan. The meeting fell days before Sasha's 12th birthday, and Mrs. Obama's office said at the time that she stayed back in Washington to be with family.

In public, Beijing muted its hurt feelings over Mrs. Obama's absence in California. But deep disappointment was registered in some Chinese mainstream and social media.

Many Chinese had looked forward to comparing Peng, an unusually visible and fashionable Chinese first lady, to her glamorous and high-profile American counterpart. Peng holds the rank of major general in the People's Liberation Army and was a popular singer on state television.

Mrs. Obama made up for her absence in California with a well-received, widely reported visit to three Chinese cities last month. She jumped rope, dabbled in tai-chi, walked a section of the Great Wall with her daughters, fed pandas, met with Xi and ate dinner with Peng.

Mrs. Obama's comments about the free flow of information, however, did not make it into official China state news reports.

The Japanese are putting a good face on Obama's upcoming solo stop, noting that his stay will be short. One high-level Japanese government official chalked up the first lady's absence to a new "American style" of travel. The official was not authorized to discuss by name details of Obama's trip before the White House announced them and spoke only on condition of anonymity.

Mrs. Obama's most recent overseas trip with her husband came last summer, when they visited three African countries with their daughters, shortly after their stops in Northern Ireland and Germany. Since then, the president has traveled without her to Sweden, Russia, Mexico, the Netherlands, Belgium, Italy and Saudi Arabia.

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ddstan1120 April 19 2014 at 8:30 AM

In some countries in Asia, a muslim doesn't cart his wife around with him.
It was also interesting that during the last Ramadan celebration, Obama's wedding ring was "out for repairs", according to Jay Carney, and Obama didn't wear a watch during the same perion. Muslims don't wear jewelery during Ramadan.

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kcarthey ddstan1120 April 19 2014 at 8:33 AM

Do you realize that the largest Muslim country in the world has had several women as President? One male president of that nation even had a wife who maintained her own apartment at the Waldorf. You know very little about Muslims and haven't the vaguest idea what country I'm talking about, do you?

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suziqtest April 18 2014 at 6:09 PM

Again.... dumb and dumber. Spending band width on this tripe is simply a waste. PLZ stop and post some news that has ANY meaning to the USA.

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KATHI AND JOHN April 18 2014 at 7:58 PM


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MERLIN April 19 2014 at 9:58 AM

who cares

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snickellfritzz MERLIN April 19 2014 at 10:19 AM

Why you here cowboy ?

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mlaurel58 snickellfritzz April 19 2014 at 10:38 AM

being called a cowboy is not an insult.

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rrusrjr2 April 19 2014 at 6:09 AM

The Japanese were reacting in their own way, about Michelle's absence in this trip. First, they are disturbed that she recently visited with their enemy, China. Second, the Japanese consider a person in a leadership role, in politics or business, to display respect when the wife accompanies. I know this from many years of personal experience.

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mphilli123 April 19 2014 at 10:05 AM

Ask the Korean's how they feel about the Japanese decorum.

Give me a break

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Erbie's April 19 2014 at 9:04 AM

Upset because the wife dosen't go on a business trip? How many times do the Japanese bring their wives and if they do how many times have you seen it in the newspaper? How many Geshias get media coverage, yet they raise caine because the leader of this country doesn't take his wife? Really and truely what can the wife do, talk her husband into doing something in favor of Japan after being encouraged to do that by a Japanese diplomat. How much secret information that the President have in his knowledge that the wife doesn't know about, how much has he indavertantly told her that she may tell a country that it will not benefit or even something that will aid them in trials against an enemy country. All of them, not just Obama, I don't think the family should be legally allowed to go on diplomatic trips, either with the husband or not.

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chefjohnp April 18 2014 at 6:02 PM

Saves the tax payers money, I think.

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RANDYTHOMAS711 chefjohnp April 18 2014 at 6:07 PM

Now THAT would be a FIRST for this PREZ!

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lilly295 April 18 2014 at 6:00 PM

he needs to go like a hole in the head. They are so out of touch, they live in lala land.

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drjpv82 April 18 2014 at 5:58 PM

I' m glad they are taking advantage of the ultimate entitlement program at tax payer expense!

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